when two people come to play chess- and the other in their opening moves....goes right for the kill or .is ruthless against a lesser oppenent.....
the overall lesson to viewers is already clear.....
one man came in peace......the other came for the jugular...
same with meetings or any sitauituion
so.....people who mistreat me or my friends who also come in peace
have already lost.....so busy in their apparent victory.....too stupid to green to know they ....have already lost.....
a teacher of many areas
a mentor
an ally
connections
support job opportuntietes and connections
reacher of industrial arts, life skils, studying, art and on and on and on
same with people who look down their noses at us....they by definition
hafe already lost....i do not have to come to their aid....i do not ...have to teach them anyhing
and i will ....teach them humillity they should have....because all the pearls of my hard eanred life....they ......will have to figure out.....on their own....teh hard way becaus ewhat i kno w.....istnt.....in any books.......
so.......stop worrying about anxiety that is age and wil go away with experience and training and studying and ewxperience.....stop worrying about worrying or axiety....go find safe places to gain expereince....go volunteer no matter how small....age old principles......u wil gain experence an dfind frineds and the elders will respect u for making urself useful and not being like toher spoiled or super snotty party party drunks or pool partie frat snots oretc............u worry about what the elders think.....young people dont worry agbout what tthey thihk....life will catch up with them.....and the elders already know who rhey will hire last.....as they were cruel or hard on u.....when u needed a big brother or sister...........etc.......
anxiety...u dont need shrink or or seen this time and again for copetitons and iexams....runing to the counselor ....or what.....ur scared because u know in ur heart ur not ready an ur goingt to get creamed.......the counslor has no magic pill.......so ....u own up and start early ......samw as we tell all students all ages.......the party kids will cram the night beroe and the one that tgets help early from the teacher and works daliy or uses the info or study buddy and works hard .....they wil prevail.......
there no magic forjula....so u hafe anxiety so what then srart earlier......so i takes me lontger .....so waht...........i studied so much and so hard.....so lontg .....i was so well prepared....i walked intto five day oral exams........ready ande im not that smart....
i llistej to myslef..........i prepare and preapared....done i5 over again........told people how .....never awa to listen ....ok ................fine do i t the hard way go talk to ur counselor who knows ntohign about the exam .....or go study go practriee....