Not Perfect

[SineNomine23]

Sometimes we cannot deny that no matter how many times you do good to people they will only remember your mistakes 😞

Any advices?

[Sillysausage234]

Do you try your best ?thats all we can do ,feelings of low self worth are usually instilled in us from a young age ….so today make a new start ,read some stuff on self worth…best wishes

[SineNomine23 in reply to Sillysausage234]

Thank You 🙏

[Dolphin14]

People love to point out our flaws. There are lots of reasons for that... their own insecurities and issues, there own low self esteem. They try to belittle our achievements. My mother was like that so I know this first hand.

It takes time to see what they are doing. Just stand up tall, do your best and recognize how good you are.

🐬

[SineNomine23 in reply to Dolphin14]

Thank you for your advice, yeah my relatives are just perfectionist and judgemental, well, most Asian families are like that, that's why I come up with this feeling. God Bless you 😊

[Dolphin14 in reply to SineNomine23]

I'm sorry you are going through this. People that think they are perfectionists are usually covering up something themselves. I learned that in therapy. No one is perfect. We all make mistakes. Sometimes people try to be " perfect" to prevent ridicule. At the same time it's a part of them and they don't see how they are hurting someone else.

Stay strong and keep talking here. A lot of us understand the root issues of this.

🐬

[SineNomine23 in reply to Dolphin14]

Thank you so much 🙏

[Hidden]

No one's perfect, we all make mistakes. Some of the most critical people are the unhappiest.

[Midori]

Just be the best You you can be. That is all any of us can do.

People will always pick on our 'faults', or what they consider 'faults', because it is the things that last in our brains, (it's a self protection instinct) and humans are a prey species, so we look for the danger, even if we don't recognise it as such.

We should have outgrown it by now, but we automatically find the 'different' and use it as an excuse to be nasty to each other.

But we are all the same. 2 eyes, 2 ears, 2 arms. 2 legs, and a pretty much equal assortment of innards! I don't recognise differences; I'll talk to anyone.

Cheers, Midori

[SineNomine23 in reply to Midori]

Thank you so much for your advice. 🙏😊

[Hidden]

🌸 There will always be someone who can't see your worth. Don't let it be you. 💗

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Hidden]

👇

[SineNomine23 in reply to Hidden]

Thank you 🙏, My ex broke up with me a week ago after I had a mental breakdown, I guess he didn't see me worth as well.

[Hidden in reply to SineNomine23]

You are very welcome, SineNomine23.

So, normally one would say "I am sorry to hear that your boyfriend left you." Not in this case, though. I feel you may do better without him.

Love yourself first, SineNomine23. Boyfriends/friends will be there and then not be there. The ones who stand by your side in your darkest hours are truly valuable and golden. Cherish and love them second. ❤️

[Sillysausage234]

Short story …….Once upon a time ,a long time ago ,there was an eagle 🦅 egg 🥚 It was hatched out by a chicken 🐔……spent all day looking at the floor scratching around for food and doing chicken stuff…..one day he looked into the sky and saw an eagle,flying around doing eagle stuff …..Wow he said to himself,I wish I could fly .😄

[SineNomine23 in reply to Sillysausage234]

I get it, 😂, Thank you 🙏, but it's a funny story though, I mean if that happened literally 😅

[Sillysausage234 in reply to SineNomine23]

Glad you like it ,I love it and it relates to so many people on here who don’t look up to the sky 😊

[SineNomine23 in reply to Sillysausage234]

Thank you, I really love it 😁

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

Love this story, SS. Thanks for sharing it with us. There is a lesson to be learned here. ❤️

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Hidden]

Glad you liked it too ,here’s the book recommendation ,lots more stuff in there worth reading.🌿

📚

[Hidden in reply to Sillysausage234]

Thank-you, SS. 💗 Very nice of you. 🌿

[Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234]

I have that book. That one story has so much depth to it. Just because you were raised with the chickens doesn't mean you don't have the ability to soar high in the sky and be what you were meant to be

Thank you for sharing this story I hadn't heard it in a long time

🐔🦅

❤️🐬

[Sillysausage234 in reply to Dolphin14]

You’re welcome…..dolphin no 14 ….hope you are well and good ..swimming around that ocean 🌊

[Dolphin14 in reply to Sillysausage234]

I am very good thank you. The ocean is a fabulous place for me 🐬

Hope things are going well for you. Have a peaceful evening.

❤️🐬

[EndUser13]

Care for those that care for you. Don't be overly generous with those who won't appreciate what you have to offer. Understand that your value is not determined by someone else's opinion. Occasionally you'll come across those who appreciate you for who you are and it'll make being a giving soul mean that much more.

We all make mistakes but that is just a part of what makes up our character, please try to be kind to yourself, even when others may not be.

[SineNomine23 in reply to EndUser13]

Thank you for your lovely advice 😊 God Bless 🤗