Trigger warning*
So for a while now I haven’t been able to get to a psychologist, this is because of the lack of time... amongst other things. So because of this my safety net/ support system just doesn’t exist. Those that I consider my friends just haven’t said much and consistently tell me to stop if I begin telling them what’s on my mind, so I really need to let this out. I consistently get called dramatic.. this has made me internalize a lot of things as of lately and I guess they just burst after the events yesterday.. I just don’t want to be a deadweight for anyone around me. I’m trying my hardest to manage how I feel but.. it just never seems like I’ll be able to. I feel completely broken, and unable to come to terms with what has happened to me. Growing up, I dealt with a lot of older figures manipulating or gaslighting me and making me believe I was worthless. I was physically and emotionally bullied for years by both adults and peers. This made me a pretty insecure person and very vulnerable to being preyed on. When I was 8 I became groomed by a much older boy and then taken advantage of, multiple times... what makes me sick and guilty is that it wasn’t like I was resisting.. truth is I was so manipulated that I just thought that any attention and “affection” was good. In recent years I had fallen into an abusive friendship/relationship, where I was consistently gaslit and manipulated to the point that I just felt even more like a deadweight. No one around me knows everything I’ve gone through so when I start having an anxiety attack, uncontrollably hyperventilating or crying (which happens in some cases) everyone considers me “dramatic” and “unstable”. Back in middle/ highschool I “won” the “drama queen” title every single time there was such an award. I feel like such a deadweight and no matter what I do I can’t control my emotions and my brain. I am trying my best not to repeat the same mistakes as yesterday, I really am. It’s so hard not to feel worthless and let everyone’s expectations and opinions get to me. To those around me I’m just a deadweight, I don’t know what to do and I just... I’m helpless.