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Okay - there are five nodes located outside of the pelvic floor - by chest and neck. Had one round of chemo - after RP, Gleason 4 + 3, small amount of tertiary 5. No nodes noted in pelvic region when radical prostatectomy was done. PSMA was 5 at three months post surgery. PSMA was 7.5 on next test and then 9. Genetics came back with no red flags. Doing triplet therapy - no cancer in organs or bones. When I look online it says the five year survival rate is 34% for five years. Is this correct?

After 6 rounds of chemo, going to get another PSMA pet scan.

This survival rate is terrifying me right now. Help - how accurate is this?

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mrscruffy

Keep in mind they are just numbers and don't reflect individuals. So many factors to consider and each individual is different. Upon my diagnosis I was told by my Dr 3 years was probably it. Going on 9 years in June. I fired that doctor. A good example is I caught mine very early, my friend the same age caught his late. Both diagnosed within a month of each other. He has been dead for 2 years

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Luvmyman in reply tomrscruffy

Was your stage 4? lymph node involvement? distant? bones?

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mrscruffy in reply toLuvmyman

No Lynph Node involvement. Mets up and down spine as well as pelvis

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Luvmyman in reply tomrscruffy

Wow - you are a superstar

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Lettuce231

Hello,

I have read your husbands Bio.

I too was a Gleason 7, when I was diagnosed, it was also in the lymph nodes, my PSA was 150, I was 56 years old at the time, I'm now into my 69th year.

The hardest thing for all of us upon diagnosis, is the shock, the how, why and the when. My wife would take our dog for a walk in the woods, so she could cry, how does one process this.

We all look up survival rates at the beginning, when really we shouldn't, there is no point to it, what was my survival rate supposed to be, whatever it was I'm still here and intend staying around a very long time.

Once the shock subsides and the treatment begins to work, your lives will settle again.

A year or so ago, I posted "Some Encouragement" the response was amazing, have a read, all the people who were once in your place and are still fighting, years and years later, there were so many uplifting responses, how each of us copes and emerges again.

Yes you will see changes in your husband, due to the medication, I'm sure at times he will become frustrated, but patience is the key.

You are not alone, you have come to a very good support group, with loads of experience and support from wives and the men afflicted with this beast.

On that note, I'll sign off and wish you and your husband all the best.

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Luvmyman in reply toLettuce231

Thank you for your kind words. I am struggling. Do you mind me asking how many lymph nodes - regional or distant? The distant thing is what’s really got me worried. I need to calm down - kind of in flight or fright mode right now. He is an amazing husband, father, friend who has worked so hard his whole life. He is continuing to work because he doesn’t want to lose his healthcare.

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Lettuce231 in reply toLuvmyman

Hi, off the top of my head, I think it was two, pelvic lymph nodes.

From your post, you say " no red flags" which is good news. If there were distant ones, I expect that would have shown. Those in his neck were distant, but have been treated.

My treatment, is Zytiga, Lupron and prednisone, I have not had chemo, or radiation, the thinking behind the treatment is to suppress the cancer cells and therefore not allow them to progress further.

For you now, with respect, is to try not to over think the situation. The information that you have to hand is all positive and from that you can all go forward.

I think that your husband will suffer from tiredness, if he is working, he may need to talk to the doctor to find if there is something that might help him, depending on his work.

Honestly do not read up any further for now, there is way too much information out there, it isn't always correct either and it will cause too much anxiety.

I hope this helps you a little.

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Luvmyman in reply toLettuce231

The ones by his neck have not been treated - waiting to finish chemo and then will radiate. Those are the ones that worry me the most.

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Lettuce231 in reply toLuvmyman

Okay, sorry, I misunderstood. Naturally you are worried, I have a friend who had the same treatment and has been clear for many years now. There is no reason why your husband shouldn't be the same. They will monitor to be sure 👍

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treedown in reply toLuvmyman

I was also dx Gleason 7 PSA 156 at age 56. Had radiation and ADT treatment , a break, then recurrence. We found mets in upper spine. Dr decided not to radiate. I was put back on ADT. That was Jan 2023. As of my last tests I am still hormone sensitive and my life is relatively normal. I agree with Lettuce, and have come to a place that I am living life and enjoying it as if I did not have cancer. Yes I get anxiety around tests but not in between. And I won't get myself worked up until something changes my treatment and keep praying that day doesn't come. This July will be 6 years since dx and in some ways I am in better shape than ever. Retirement helped that. I hope the best for you and your husband.

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Lettuce231 in reply totreedown

Brilliant tree down, I'm really pleased for you 😉. 😀

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j-o-h-n

You must and I emphasize must stop thinking about the beast..... Remember most men leave the performance with the beast rather than from the beast. Enjoy life!!! BTW what's your dear Husband's age (add it to his bio)?

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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Luvmyman in reply toj-o-h-n

He is 62 - I am unfortunately going down a worrisome path.

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j-o-h-n in reply toLuvmyman

Worry is like herpes........... Stop it NOW!!! I had my prostate out at 66 and I worried and worried for a few years.... until one day I said F-it and laughed (and laughed). I am 88 now and still laughing..... Take it from me, your dear husband will beat the Beast!!!

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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Luvmyman in reply toj-o-h-n

was it in distant lymph nodes? That’s the worry. I know what you are saying, though. I will try - been crying every day. Lost my dad not long ago - just feeling a lot of pain.

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Lettuce231 in reply toLuvmyman

I think you need to switch this off for now, it's not helping. Take a step back and gather yourself together ❤️

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Luvmyman in reply toLettuce231

Thx - I probably needed that

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MateoBeach

Okay. If there are truly 5 nodal mets and no more on PSMA PET then he is oligometastatic and could greatly benefit from SBRT radiation treatment targeting those nodes. This is called “metastasis directed therapy”. I would not wait to finish chemotherapy unless it is nearly done. Get a new PSMA PET scan and consult a good RO to evaluate and plan for SBRT treatment. Promptly. MB

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Luvmyman in reply toMateoBeach

Thanks - we could ask about that at half time

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NecessarilySo

Neck and chest lymph nodes are easily self-treated with very hot shower. I eliminated neck node mets with hot showers, about 110 degrees, for about 30 seconds. It took a few attempts, but the pain vanished immediately after heat application. I was on Lupron also.

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DarrylPartner in reply toNecessarilySo

@NecessarilySo It's unlikely that you "treated" lymph nodes with a hot shower. I imagine you are confusing Lipomas with Lymph Nodes.

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NecessarilySo in reply toDarryl

This is what I'm talking about. in my case they felt pain to the touch just like about two dozen other metastases that I had all over my back and ribs. Call it what you want.

neck lymph nodes
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Luvmyman

he has no pain - just a couple of spots that were lit up a bit on PSMa pet scan - thanks for the suggestion.

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j-o-h-n

Concerned about Pca showing up in lymph nodes?

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The severity of the concern depends on factors such as:

The extent of the spread (how many lymph nodes are involved).

The size of the affected lymph nodes.

The overall health of the person and how well they might tolerate treatment.

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Treatment for prostate cancer that has spread to distant lymph nodes often involves a combination of therapies, such as:

Hormone therapy (androgen deprivation therapy).

Chemotherapy.

Radiation therapy.

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The stage of the cancer, the type of cells, and the patient's overall health are critical in determining the appropriate treatment plan. A healthcare provider will typically provide a more personalized outlook based on these factors.

If you or someone you know is dealing with this situation, it’s essential to discuss treatment options with an oncologist or urologist to understand the best course of action.

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Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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Luvmyman in reply toj-o-h-n

His doctor seems to think he can knock it out with Triplet - the journey has begun.

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j-o-h-n in reply toLuvmyman

That's good............. Regards!!!

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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NanoMRI in reply toj-o-h-n

so it seems AI has already developed anti-surgery bias? Not a mention of salvage lymph node surgery -the treatment strategy I chose seven years ago.

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j-o-h-n in reply toNanoMRI

Oops........... I forgot to push 2 for English.....Damn foreigners....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

Kaliber profile image
Kaliber

treatments have improved , including beneficial combinations of ADT drugs …. aPCa men are living longer than they used to live. No one can accurately say how long we will live. When I was first DXed , the time we lived was estimated at 18-24 months. It changed shortly after that to 24-36 months and now it’s supposed to be 5.5 years to well over 6 years ….. but many men here are outliving that .

I was DXed with Mets in ALL my bone joints , even up into to my skull and mandible. Mets in ALL my lymph nodes too. My PSA was 1400-1600. Table full of doctors wanted me to enter inpatient hospice immediately. I decided to try ADT to lessen my pain load , and here it is 6 years and 4 months later and I’m still here moving forward . The point being we are all individuals / different and no one can say exactly when we will pass.

It’s natural to worry and have angst, but hubby is likely to live longer than you expect , and if things continue to improve , who knows ? Just imho but hubby is getting the newest triplet therapy which is the current best treatment with many other, life extenders , waiting in the wings. Now seems like time to relax a little and enjoy the QOL time you guys have left. Now being better than later, …… later on “ things “ aren’t likely to be as good as they are right now.

Just my perspective + imho ….

❤️❤️❤️

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Luvmyman in reply toKaliber

sage advice - very much appreciated

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j-o-h-n in reply toKaliber

To Ka the liber,

You forgot to mention when St. Pete heard it was you in the up elevator he pressed the reject button faster than you can say "OH NO not here"......

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n

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RoseDoc

If he responds to triplet therapy, the 10 year survival rate greatly improves. Bear in mind that stats for survival include all comers, some with more aggressive disease than others. Doesn't include other risk factors such as cardiovascular disease. He's on the right treatment and responding well, thus far. See where he is after the 6th chemo treatment.

Hoping all goes very well!

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Luvmyman in reply toRoseDoc

Thank you - I need encouragement and hope. Kind of in a dark funk about all of this.

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RoseDoc in reply toLuvmyman

No need to be. It is awful to hear when you first get the news. Be aggressive fighting this, be proactive. Don't be discouraged by the stats. There are many here who have outlived what they were initially told and new treatments keep coming along.

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Guchamamo

My husband (58 years old) was diagnosed about 9 months ago with Gleason 9 and spread to distant lymph nodes, but no organ or bone mets. He started triple therapy with ADT, Nubeqa, and docetaxel in August/September. His PSA was only 11 at diagnosis and became undetectable right after the first chemo infusion. He finished chemo in January and the follow-up PSMA PET showed no evidence of disease. Because he still has his prostate, we then began radiation to hopefully kill the prostate and also with radiation to the lymph nodes that were positive on the first PSMA scan. His MO, RO, and urologist were all in agreement with treating aggressively with the hope of a cure. So far, it appears to be working and we're hopeful that continues! Wishing you all the best.... don't lose hope!

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