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My loving partner died peacefully in my arms last night. He had a 23 year disagreement with prostate cancer and had a great partnership with SCCA that gave him 18+ years of wonderful symptom free remission. I relished every single minute of our time together.

Thanks to all of the people who posted providing me with valuable insights & treatment information along with sharing personal stories. May you all enjoy your friends and families during your journeys through time.

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NickJoy profile image
NickJoy

So sorry for your loss. Take care.

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Kaliber

my deepest heartfelt condolences for the loss of your loving partner. Sounds like he was surrounded with your love and comfort when he passed. I hope your heartbreak mends quickly, you will always carry his memory in your heart.

❤️❤️❤️

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Tall_Allen

I'm sorry for your loss. I love the term "disagreement." SCCA is among the best anywhere - what a blessing that he was able to remain symptom free so long and what a blessing for both you that he died in your arms.

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Mcrpca in reply toTall_Allen

I appreciated our conversations. You were a knowledgeable person with whom to bounce thoughts around.

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Mtnhigh

I'm sorry to hear your news. I hope you find peace and eventually some joy moving forward. Your husband was lucky to have you. Deb

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Mcrpca in reply toMtnhigh

We were lucky to have each other. We were a great team.

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DarrylPartner

condolences

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MJCA

My Deepest Condolences. He was definitely a Warrior.

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TylexGP

So sorry for your loss! Sending hugs to you and your family.

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Thesledge

I’m sorry and my thoughts are with you

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babychi

So sad for you. Sending a big hug.💜

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Flash64

so sorry for your loss

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jeetu_g27

Sorry for your loss. May he rest in peace🙏🙏

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Maxone73

God bless you both!

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Proflac

Sad news but such a reassuring thing to hear of the peaceful, loving end. Thank you for posting.

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Hailwood

So deeply sorry for your loss and thank you for taking the time to let us know what happened.

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rosenjpj

I am so sorry for your loss. May his memory be a blessing.

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Alloy7

I'm glad that he died peacefully, with you there to hold him. Thanks for letting us know. I hope you find strength you need going forward.

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john510185

Very sorry to hear this.

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Amadeus71

🙏❤💪

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Juju1979

So sorry to hear of his passing. He was blessed to have you with him during his "23 year disagreement with prostate cancer."

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Ian99

Sorry for this sad news. Sincere condolences.

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HikerWife

I'm sorry for your loss. I'm so glad he had you by his side during the long journey. Wishing you strength and peace.

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Cateydid

thank you for sharing news of your beloved’s passing. He was lucky to have you, and you, he.

Prayers for your comfort and peace.

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Pmann

So sorry for your loss. May he rest in Peace.

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hopeful1956

Sending you gentle hugs and heartfelt condolences. :(

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BanjoPicker

Hoping you find comfort in all the good memories of pleasant times together.

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Istomin

My deepest condolences.

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Lasered

So sorry for your loss 🙏

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Tinkudi

Many prayers and much love 🙏🏻❤️🙏🏻

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Cyclingrealtor

Sorry for your loss! Thanks for your love and support of another cancer brother. It meant way more than you know. 🙏🏻🩵

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Sushupthi

🙏🙏🙏 Peace .

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HotRod4321

Godspeed...

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Cancer2x

So sorry to hear. May your memories together give you comfort, and the life transition be smooth and peaceful for you.

Pax

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j-o-h-n

May he rest in peace for eternity...

j-o-h-n

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Metaldraft

always thanking the kind and compassionate people who stand by and comfort those who have the unforgiving disease

Thank you for your love towards him

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Har036

So sorry to hear of your husband’s passing. Sending you our condolences and keeping you in our prayers.

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FjSENC

I am so sorry for your loss. Condolences to you, his family and friends.

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MateoBeach

blessings and peace to your heart

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SuppWife

I’m so very sorry for your loss💔

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tsim

My condolences and thank you for sharing your story

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jtspitfire

Cherish the memories.

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Realistic

So sorry for your sad loss god bless him xxx SheilaFxxx

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Tommyj2

so sorry for your loss…wishing you peace in your recovery.

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JazzMan42

RIP, hubby!

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SteveTheJ

Peace to you. Love your attitude toward this; you're not asking for sympathy or pity and you're obviously grieving. May you find the comfort you seek.

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HalC

I’m so sorry for your loss. Wishing you peace and comfort.

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skiingfiend

I am sorry for your loss.

Thankfully, you and your husband enjoyed almost two full decades of life after his diagnosis and then to pass on peacefully in your arms at the end is an exceptional way to go. These are things, among the many other facets of your long life together, to be celebrated.

God bless.

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gsun

Passing in your arms is a gift. I hope I can do the same. May I ask how old he was?

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Mcrpca in reply togsun

He was 81 years old. Diagnosed with metastatic disease in 2001. Wishing you peace.

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Teacherdude72

Sorry for your loss.

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monte1111

No words at a time like this. I am so sorry for the loss of your partner.

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ctflatlander

Peace to you.

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i0rion

So sorry for your loss.

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Retireddoc

Sorry for your loss. Now that he has found peace, I hope the same for you.

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cancerfox

Words are inadequate at a time like this, but I hope that time heals your heartache and your love endures beyond the veil of time.

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PSAed

My sincere condolences.

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Docker53

So very sorry for your loss. Having so many years together is a true blessing and having him go peacefully in your arms is comforting to know.

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Karirudy

My heart goes out to you. Holding your partner at the time of his passing... what a tender and loving moment. May peace and sweet memories remain. My husband and i have had this disagreement for 5 1/2 years. I hold him every night....

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Mcrpca in reply toKarirudy

It's worth it.

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PE56

so sorry for your loss. We’re all having disagreements here. All the best!

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garyjp9

My deepest sympathy for your loss. What a blessing for him to pass with you there.

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Yadifan

I'm so sorry for your loss. Thank you for letting us know. Prayers for strength and comfort for you.

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icanwintwice

23 years. Makes me think I can do it too! So sorry for your loss. Sounds like he was quite a man… My prayers are with you!

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JohnInTheMiddle

Mcrpca, may your husband's memory be for a blessing.

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Mcrpca

All of the compassionate people who wished me peace while I grieve are the reason this site is so valuable. Thank you all for your heartfelt comments.

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groundhogy

he died in your loving arms is all i needed to hear.

I wonder how rare that is for a man. He was very fortunate in my book.

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rosenjpj

God bless and may you find peace and comfort in his memory.

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Maxone73

Every time I read this post, I can't bear how it makes me feel sad and helpless (as always when it's about one of us passing away). However, it always makes me smile to read about a "23 years long disagreement with prostate cancer"!

I wish all the newly diagnosed guys, including myself, a long disagreement with PCa.

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