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Adventist Health Fall 2023 mag had this some brown guy in a blurb about #stageivpca and running.

My RO Dr. Mariscal of AIS Cancer Center in Bakeresfield in the pic fist bumping me.

Speaking of Bakes, the PCa awareness 5k is next Sat if anyone wants info, please PM me πŸ’™

I'm gonna have a sign with the same names from the Ventura Memorial tile at the event.

QoL on y'all

Keep on keepin on

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She's a beauty (The medal I mean) youtu.be/mQ_k_VG6Syc?si=c_d...

Conqueror Challenge 2023
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My longtime pt just got her 1st book published and she had a lil party, I have it displayed at the office. It's on Amazon and B&N😁

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Gnite y'all have a wonderful Sunday

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Keep on QoLin on

At her book party
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Kaliber in reply to dockam

Dang dooooooooode .. another β€œ slam dunk β€œ out there buddy. Out β€œ representing β€œ for the fallen warriors and keeping that cancer awareness in the spotlight. You are the best . Thank you big guy.

❀️❀️❀️

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dockam in reply to Kaliber

Mahalo Bruddah KalπŸ’™, it was cuz I did those two vids at the 1/2 way thru IMRTs then the lil party at the last one at AIS.

So, I was a known quantity - goofball 😁 and willing to help spread PCa Awareness, so they emailed me about doing that article.

For anyone who doesn't know what I'm talking about, here's the 1/2 way vid: photos.app.goo.gl/sVJFVqf5a...

and the last IMRT album:

photos.app.goo.gl/5psbPskZ7...

QoL on y'all

Luv ya Kal

In Memoriam sign at event
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Shucks buddy, feels like you are a full fledged celebrity now. .

Uhhhhhhhhhh …I dunno , …. somehow ( from the pictures ) β€œ you β€œ have a different experience when you go in for a scan. When you get a scan … a party erupts and Kumbaya singing breaks out …and a party happens. Geeesh … when I get a scan , the doc comes out of the lead room… puts his arm around my shoulder and asks if Im being kept comfortable and did I sign my EOL papers yayayay yayay ya. You still da man, definitely.

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LoL, a big fish in a lil pond of PCa men😜, nope I'm just like y'all cept for really Givin No F's no mo about what others think and putting myself out there to Make Ripples/Spread Aloha as long as I can. Ex wife asked why I wanted to put self out there after flying under Radar whole life, my response "I think I can help"

My new purpose in this Life, spare other men the BS that we're going thru and just Live, Love, Laugh and QoL

I wear that Celebrity Skin LoL

youtu.be/O3dWBLoU--E?si=dZM...

QoL on Bruddah Kal

πŸ’™πŸ’™πŸ’™

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Some of it ….is probably what drove you to be a doctor to begin with. Just say’in.

😁😁😁

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Yea, one has to have a lil of that empathy/caring for the pt in healthcare and so that has easily transferred to wanting to help others dealing with PCa, whether the victim or the family member.

Nailed it Bruddah KalπŸ’™

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Hey, is that magazine at all Advent Health Hospitals or just local to your area?

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Hi, I believe it may just be a Kern County, CA thingie, I dunno how widespread they are.

adventisthealth.org/about-c...

Maybe just a West Coast outfit?

QoL on Sis πŸ˜‚

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We have advent health here on the east coast too. I believe your article is local hospital. Still cool though that you are spreading the word about PCa

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Oh okay, I was with Kaiser and the young MO referred me to AIS, maybe he was overwhelmed by my questions about Treatments.😁

LoL, glad I made the switch, AIS has been wonderful, made a lotta new friends, some may be doing the 5k event next Sat and then pizza/beer after. Also became a lil Social Media thang with the 1/2 way and last IMRT vids.

Anything to spread word about PCa and getting checked

Luv ya my new SisπŸ’™

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we should figure out how to get it spreading ALL OVER the US!

Fight On

Andy

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Social media can do that, I've already posted on my FB. I'm sure that Adventist Health will post on their media. We gotta #savethemales :-)

Erybody knows that Oct is BRCa Awareness month with so much pink around. Not many know that last month was PCa Awareness month.

PCa needs a Susan G Komen komen.org/ to advocate, LoL I'll be Susan G KAMen😁

Fight on

QoL on Bruddah

Post run Chicken Chicharones and a beer
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youtu.be/mB7oUI32E1Y?si=qhs...

I’ve been there… bring lots of water and sunscreen 😎

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1st time there was as a 2nd year in dental school, like 1980, and we did dental work on migrant worker kiddos in a mobile dental clinic.

Dunno what time of year, def not Summer tho. Maybe had beers and shots that night LoL

Your work and dedication surrounding Prostate cancer awareness is a gift to all. Wonderful work from your heart.

Thank you sir.

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πŸ’™ Mahalo nui loa my Brother, you're welcome and My Pleasure to advocate for PCa Awareness and to honor men taken, I read your Profile and I have those four PCa men taken whom you mentioned on the Ventura Memorial Tile :-(

Dan59

Neal-Snyder

Cericwin

YostConner

CericWin was one one the 1st here on HU that helped me in 2016, I remember him speaking about an orchiectomy and wanting like huge replacement balls :-)

Been doing Advocacy way back

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I'm getting the vibe that I'm maybe meant to still be here with #stageivpca, #Blessed

Fight on

QoL on

Ventura Memorial for PCA men
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GeorgeGlass in reply to dockam

Wow, what is that memorial made out of? Was that actually out in public?

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Hi, it's a 12 x 24 ceramic tile from Home Depot, an office staff cut the blue letters for me, I printed up the list and used a UV resistant clear film over it all. Here's an article about it: visitventuraca.com/blog/hao...

I was up there last weekend to replace the faded list and to re-cover it, also moved it to a shadier side of the planter

Ventura Memorial Graden
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Lol! CericWin, as a last resort, had his orchiectomy in hopes of slowing his cancer progression . When asked about "replacements," he told the doctors he wanted 2 striped pool balls sewn in. Hard to forget those days. BTW, remember when you became a part of the group, you have done well.

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Yea, CericWin was a hoot, I found this: malecare.org/wp-content/upl...

We lost so many wonderful Men :-(

"Toast to the ones here today

Toast to the ones that we lost on the way

'Cause the drinks bring back all the memories

And the memories bring back, memories bring back you"

youtu.be/SlPhMPnQ58k?si=OSm...

I think I joined in 2016 - what a long strange trip it's been.

Yea, I'm still standin, and Brother so are you πŸ’™

Keep on QoLing On

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SeosamhM in reply to dockam

Wow...a lot of names I know... greatly missed, never forgotten.

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Yea, so sad and I had to add a few names when I replaced the faded list :-(

I'll be the Keeper of the Flame until I pass it on to another hopefully years from now

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All great! Thanks for sharing!πŸ’™

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You're a great spokesman for fighting Pca. Keep up the good work and don't forget to leave a space for me on the memorial..... (note: Don't put me near Kal..... he's a Pain in my ass)....

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 10/30/2023 8:14 PM DST

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Mahalo Bruddah, tryna spare other men from the BS that we have going on

A space for the Ex also😁?

Never say "pain in the ass' to a PCa pt - LOL

I have undies that say "exit only"

QoL on

Laugh on

Joke on

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Oh oh …. Starting to get a little spicy now πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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Too spicy and you definitely don't wanna be near my back side😁 esp with an open flame

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Ewwwwwwwww yayahahaha

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🀒

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Don't pull my finger 😜

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Rotflol

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lol

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Did you say space for my ex-wife? I'd like to send her to outta space.......

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Wednesday 11/01/2023 2:01 PM DST

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Omg yayayay yayay yayayay … I’ll have him put you and me next to each other and I’ll torment you for eternity mwaaaaaaa?

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In that case, I refuse to die..........

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Wednesday 11/01/2023 1:59 PM DST

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Yayahahahaya … we’ll that’s works , never thought of that πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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There are many people who inspire me Doc. First, my wife. She says little but has never left my side. My Kids. (well grown adults) all self sufficient and apparently none need therapy so I prolly did something right. Arnold Schwarzenegger. Yes, he is very inspirational and I listen to his 7 minute daily podcasts.

Then there is you Doc. While I don't aspire to run marathons, and I was built for comfort, I made a change in my exercise routine. I decided to incorporate running into my weekly walks. And since I never ran before in my life (well there was an incident at a rodeo once when I was a lad, but that's for another time) I decided to run for one minute, then finish my five mile walk. I walk three times per week, and each time, I added one minute of running. I started 15 weeks ago and today ran 45 minutes of my five mile. OK running is an abused term. More of a jogger. I'll take it and thanks!

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Oh wow my Brother, you placed me in such an esteemed group and that really warms my heart to be included with themπŸ’™.

I'm so very grateful/humbled that I was able to inspire you to pick up the pace during your walks. I don't run much no mo, but being up here at 4000 ft challenges the cardiovascular system that boosts fitness and hopefully longevity.

My raison d'etre post #stageivpca diagnosis has been:

#1 live a long *ss time (9 years babeee)

#2 help others via my words/actions/deeds.

It was since Summer 2022 that I posted more QoL things to distract from the dreck of PCa and the med SEs. I'm elated that it succeeded in enlivening/inspiring y'all

If you use a walking app, if ya wanna you may choose courses on Conqueror and it syncs with your app and places you on whatever course you're on: theconqueror.events/all-cha...

Most have a Google Street view and that's pretty cool. I bought a City pack with DC, LA and NYC

youtu.be/oT57tjz9py8?si=NG6...

QoL on, Hike on, Laugh on

Luv ya Bruddah swwags

NYC Virtual hike

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