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QoL -- Matt's Morning Walk

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When we were on holiday in Devon (I undertook a pilgrimage to see Mary Anning's statue in Lyme Regis and stayed in Sidmouth), Jacqui bought be a set of wide watercolour brushes. I painted this entirely with the 1" brush and love the way the middle headland has come out.

It is mixed media, with watercolour, sand(!), gesso, Inktense and gouache. There might be something else I have forgotten. It is about 24x32 cm, but a bit got chopped off during the cropping.

The view itself is in Wales, looking north along the coastline a little distance from New Quay (Ceinewydd). Thankfully I did not have to scramble along the coastal footpath to take the reference photograph.

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Lyubov

How lovely!

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Kaliber

once again, another interesting work, nice buddy.

So …. A question, are you actually in hospice now ? , and if so …will you be keeping us posted about what happens to you, I’m sure a lot of have a strong interest in the workings of a hospice .

I know you might , understandably, want to keep that to yourself …most have here …but it’s interesting knowledge for the rest of us for when we are ready and unsure of what’s next.

❤️❤️❤️

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BrentW in reply toKaliber

I am not yet in hospice, Kaliber, but have been referred to one. It is called Skanda Vale, and is in West Wales. It is allied with an ashram, which delights me: Trinidad, where I lived for 20 years, is 40% Hindu by religion, which I got to know quite closely while there.

The hospice has just this last week been given access to my full medical records. They phoned me last Thursday to discuss my situation, though I was so busy with their questions that I honestly cannot remember much of what was said.

I shall initially be in the hospice for 1 day per week, but there are longer term options should I need. In particular, I am interested in the respite care, which allows me to stay for 4 nights / 5 days, giving my other half time off if she wishes. She will at least know I am in good hands.

We shall have to see what develops from there. I want to die surrounded by my loved ones -- my wife, mother and father, and perhaps a friend or two if my wife is comfortable with them. But I am not sure where I want to die. I would like to be in my own bed -- we have an amazing view from our window -- but we shall have to see if that is advisable.

I will do my best to keep you posted on this.

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Kaliber in reply toBrentW

Thank you Brent for sharing this info with us.. it’s great stuff for us guys coming along right behind. I definitely appreciate it.

You bring up an intriguing idea of just part time “ in da joint “ and the rest at home yayahahahaya yayahahahaya I too want to croak in my own bed as well , here in my own house.

My first offer of treatment , by my medical staff , was inpatient hospice ( 60 months ago ) … said I need to enter immediately. Like you, this is a big step with a lot of ramifications…. lots of things to consider like , just stepping over the threshold and willingly never see your home again, never sleep in your own bed, never drive my 4X4 truck again .. all my “ stuff “ … it’s heady stuff that most all of us are going to have to deal with too.

I really respect the strength and “ will “ you have buddy … it’s impressive. Once again I appreciate sharing too.

Love ya big guy

❤️❤️❤️

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HikerWife

Just beautiful. So much talent and such a good eye! Thanks for sharing.

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MouseAddams

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HealThyb

Sublime… truly gorgeous 💗

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Tjc1

Very nice , you are talented.

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Lightjunkie

love the light and shadows on that middle headland, too! You got it! Love seeing your work. And thanks for sharing about hospice. We’ll all be sitting around you, brother!

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Scout4answers

I especially like your coastline paintings

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Carlosbach

Lovely Brent. I'm so glad that you took up painting and have applied yourself so arduously. Through continued expermentation with techniques, equipment, colors you have created some beautiful works.

I like the mid headland as well, but the power of the cliff in the foreground and the way you captured the cleft are what caught my eye.

Hope you continue to paint as you transition to your new care routine.

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Mtnhigh

Again, another winner! I've never been to the UK, therefore, it is very interesting to read your descriptions and view your paintings. Thanks for sharing about your hospice options. I didn't know there were part-time options. You are so kind to consider the respite aspect for your wife. I know I couldn't relax and enjoy a respite unless I knew my husband was in good hands having his needs met. I love the "ashram" aspect to your hospice.

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garyjp9

Thank you, Brent. Very nice!

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j-o-h-n

Holey Shit............. now you're cooking!!!

Like you, I want to die in my own bed, however I want to be watching a funny comedy on the Telly....laugh myself to death....

I didn't know you spent 20 years in T & T. I know a bit about the country but have never been there. What were you doing there? Don't tell me you were playing the steel drums...

For us Yanks

Mary Anning (21 May 1799 – 9 March 1847) was an English fossil collector, dealer, and palaeontologist who became known around the world for the discoveries she made in Jurassic marine fossil beds in the cliffs along the English Channel at Lyme Regis in the county of Dorset in Southwest England. Anning's findings contributed to changes in scientific thinking about prehistoric life and the history of the Earth.

Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.

j-o-h-n Monday 10/23/2023 8:05 PM DST

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WillowHawk

Lovely painting (I started painting a year ago, so this inspires!). As a former hospice volunteer, I love hearing how one works in Wales - the respite care plan sounds so smart. Big hugs and wishing you the most fun, kind caregivers along the journey. thanks for posting. Kate

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