My dad was recently diagnosed with prostate cancer. It has metastasized to two pelvic lymph nodes and a lymph node in his back they initially called “suspicious” because it’s so small if it wasn’t for the PSMA scan it wouldn’t have been picked up at all. He got his first Lupron shot 3 weeks ago and his psa went from 300 to 30 as of last week which seems to be a quick response.
Yesterday he had a phone call with Kaiser radiology to talk about next steps. The doctor said he had 3 choices - radiate the prostate, radiate the prostate and pelvis or all three-prostate, pelvis and back! The doctor was leaning towards just the prostate and maybe including pelvic lymph nodes if my dad really wanted but obviously you are at risk for more side effects the more radiation you do. He didn’t think my dad should do his back. My dad got a second opinion from ucsf and the doctor recommended aggressive treatment and radiating all three areas. We’re conflicted and even considering a third opinion. It seems like you run the risk of lowering your quality of life although you may extend it if you radiate all three areas. Does anyone have any insight? And if we were to get a third opinion- does anyone know what the best prostate cancer clinics/centers in the US are?