I’d like to request the names of one or more good ROs and MOs in or near Houston, TX (not at MD Anderson).
My husband (age 71) was diagnosed with highly aggressive PC in late December 2021. Gleason Score 9 (4+5), PSA was 12.5. CT and bone scans indicated no metastasis but PSMA PET scan indicated likely metastasis in a nearby lymph node.
After consulting with various Houston urologists and ROs as well as with a panel of docs at MD Anderson, he opted for an RO with whom he was quite comfortable, he trusted and who was easy to connect with; however, since he was referred by a urologist in the same urology group he made sure that the urologist remained in the loop on treatment. He was started on Lupron in February and Prolia in late March (he has osteopenia and wasn’t informed about the Lupron bone density loss issue). Both of these were administered by the urologist. He just had his first radiation treatment yesterday (which is to continue M-F for 9 weeks).
Since nothing had been mentioned, I asked the radiology technician yesterday about follow-up and consultations with the RO during treatment. To my complete surprise, she told me that he’d be meeting with a different RO during his treatment and that my husband would not be seeing his own RO that he had chosen. When I asked her why, she said she didn’t know what was going on.
My husband then called and later texted his RO to find out what was going on and why. The RO said this was just how they operate at his facility, having another doctor step in as a kind of weekly check on all his patients and no worries since the other RO is also board certified. He also said he told us about this during one of our earlier consultations but we must have forgotten due to information overload. This is hogwash. I attended every consultation with my husband and took extensive notes. This was not mentioned.
We feel like he is suddenly being “passed off” by his RO whom he totally trusted and selected for his care and that there is probably more to this than he’s being told. Also, his RO treats only prostate cancer patients and the RO doing the weekly checks does not specialize in prostate cancer but treats many different types of cancer. Hence my request for recommendations and I’m curious whether others have had a similar experience.
In addition, he was told by his urologist that he didn’t need an MO, but we’re feeling now that he should see one.
Any help with comments, recommendations or referrals will be greatly appreciated.