I have been dealing with this problem for about four years now, so today I tried something a little different. Instead of wearing a catheter condom & bag, pads, or wrapping the pathetic, teeny-weeny minnow in paper towels covered with a small plastic bag & rubber bands, I just wore a regular condom. I don't have any leakage at night or much of a problem while I am sitting at my desk; however, while I'm 'out and about' and in the gym I experience significant leakage. When I wear the catheter condom & bag for a couple of hours I rarely have more than a teaspoon of urine in the bag, so I'm thinking that the condom may help restrict the flow. Today I had a leisurely lunch at a mall followed by about two hours of shopping and when I returned home I had less than a teaspoon of urine in the condom. I am going to continue trying this while I'm out, and will keep y'all apprised.
My incontinence is a result of my robotic RP that was performed 17 years ago. I did well for 12 to 13 years. Kegel exercises do nothing for me.
Ron