Dads prostate cancer after remission for 7 years went to his brain. We are going on almost 2 years more and now end stage. I moved he and mom in my house and converted the piano room to a bedroom for he and mom so he can be on the main level. Its been tough between me and my husband and mom caring for him around the clock., but I want him to be with family. He started 3 days ago with hallucinations, loss of body functions and almost like a complete dementia status so we Started hospice today, its tough. They have given him meds to keep him calm and ordered all the ones we may need in the future just so they are here. I hope its a smooth transition because that is my biggest fear. Today he ate some eggs and had a coffee but wanted to remain in bed. I have a bottle of Xtandi 80 mg I believe there are 53 pills left in there if anyone wants it, I can send it to you, whoever messages me first. I will still check the site and update on dad. Good luck to everyone that is dealing with this as a patient and as a family member. Keep up the good fight.
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I am so sorry to hear that Helen, praying for comfort and strength during this time. You are an amazing daughter that gives so much love and support to her parents, a true inspiration for me. They are very lucky to have you in their lives. ❤️🙏❤️
Thank you so much, this is the toughest time of my life but glad I can make sure dad gets the absolute best care. I've been the drive of his care for 9 years. I've always feared and dreaded this phase. Thank you, we need the prayers right now and thank you for the kind words. Good luck to you
Praying for Peace and strength for your family thru this time.
You are a very nice daughter Helen, I appreciate your caring so much to your dad. He must be very proud of you. Keep strong during this tough time. Regards
Another example of limitless love and courage by all involved. Godspeed.
Prayers for you and your family. May your Father's transition be peaceful with loving family around him. God Bless you.
god speed
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Prayers for you all 🙏🏻
Prayers for all of you during this very tough time. May God be with you all.
Keeping your family in my thoughts and prayers. It’s a difficult time—stay strong.
God is sitting on your shoulder, always remember this. Prayers
I'm so sorry. Praying for peace and strength for all of you. I went through a similar situation with my father almost 20 years ago. I know how difficult and heartbreaking it can be, but you will all get through it and be so grateful that you were able to take care of your father at home. 🩵
going on 9 years that scares the heck out of me. Good luck Warrior
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Having had the privilege of attending friends and my mother at this stage, my experience was amazing. It is an amazing part of the life cycle and my life is richer for having the opportunity to attend, witness and be present with ones that I loved. With hopes for sweet and gentle moments for all of you.
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I am so sorry to hear about your dad. I moved in with my parents last year when my daughter went off to college, to care of both my parents. It is an adjustment. I am praying for your dad. I am also praying for your strength as well as your mommy’s.
Blessings from NC,
Dee Grady
You are so wonderful to love your Dad and Mom so much. He will be surrounded by love and care and hopefully he will manage to be pain free. Thank you for taking the time to let us all know.
So sorry.
I'm praying for your Dad and all of your family. It is a precious gift that you've given your parents to be surrounded by love and support throughout this journey. Wishing you peace and light in the coming days.
Sorry to hear. Hospice was a God send for my dad and our family
Sorry to hear, hospice was great for my dad and brother. Hope it works out for your family.
Light love and power to you and your family, it will get better because your family members will come to grips with the fact it could be THEM at any time. Our food and water sources have been so altered over the years is why we see so much cancer and other ailments in people, then the prescribe meds that are petroleum based causing our biology and metabolism to go freakin haywire trying to figure how to process this meds, that's why they all present with similar side effects. God speed and smooth transition is my sorrel upon you and your family. Love n light Always Ssg. Cullum.
Im so sorry to hear your father has entered hospice. Hospice should make him comfortable and take good care of him. Clearly you have gone above and beyond to care for dear dad, I know this is heartbreaking. Dad is surrounded with love and compassionate care , none of us could ask for more, and I hope you and your family find solace knowing you have done your best , moving forward.
A warm hug and much love out to dad, you and the family.
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I have two daughters who I love very much and I know that they love me. I pray that when I reach the point that your father is that they will have the strength and compassion to care for me in the same way. God Bless you and prayers for your Dad.
I just want to say how deeply touched I am by your love and dedication to your father and your family during this incredibly difficult time. The effort you’ve gone to—creating a space where he can be surrounded by family, ensuring his comfort, and navigating the challenges of care—is truly inspiring and reflects your strength and compassion. It’s evident how much you care for him and want him to be at peace.
Thank you for sharing your experience and offering support to others who are facing similar battles. Your words and actions will surely resonate with many, reminding them that they are not alone. Wishing your dad, you, and your family strength, comfort, and love through this heartbreaking time. Sending you all my best.
I am so sorry for you and your family. It is so difficult to care for a loved one who is dying. You are brave and loving. That's all he needs now, is to know all of you are with him and offering him comfort.
We don't know what people are aware of in this dementia-like state but he may be able to hear and understand you at times and will certainly sense your presence.
I wish him a peaceful transition and for all of you to draw on family and friends for strength. At some point after he passes, you will again smile and enjoy life. That is the way it should be. It is sad but he will be out of pain. It is hardest on those closest, not the patient.
Good luck and take care.
you are a good daughter. God bless you a hundred fold. I guess there is not much to do but keep him as comfortable as possible. May you find the strength you need so much at this time.
it breaks my heart that you are now going through this. I realize that my family will most likely have to deal with this as my PC progresses. My mother is still with us at 87 and losing a son will hurt her beyond belief.
Stay strong and focus on the good times had.
May God bless and comfort all of you.
God bless you & your family. Stay strong.
My prayers to you and family 🙏🏻
Can't ask for more than a wonderful daughter.
The name Helen, of Greek origin, generally means "torch" or "light". It's associated with the Greek goddess Helen, and the famous Helen of Troy, whose beauty is said to have started the Trojan War. The name is also linked to the Greek word "Hēlios," meaning "sun".
You indeed are the Helen in your parent's lives........ May this coming Sunday shine on your faith and in what we all need.....(This Sunday 04/20/2025 Χριστός Ανέστη)
Good Luck, Good Health and Good Humor.
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