I'm a 73 male divorced/no kids just diagnosed w/stage 4 PC. Has spread to Lymph Nodes in Groin, but not to bones per scan. PSA 349, Gleason 3+3. Onc prescribes Lupron and Xtandi. (Surgery or radiation were not suggested.) Lupron side effects scare me, & it seems once you're on the chem train, you can't get off.
I'm tempted to not take the drugs, just live as healthy as possible & risk a shorter but hopefully higher QOL.
I know this is a personal decision, but.....thoughts/input?