Sleep in heavenly peace

[CantChoose]

My husband died around 10 tonight. Silent night will never be the same for me. He loved Christmas.

So many thanks to you all. You made the journey possible and bearable.

Fight on.

[Aussieguy1]

You were there by your Husbands side throughout this battle. You advocated for him from the very beginning and you shared his journey in order to help him and others. May your grief ease with time, may these most unpleasant memories of his prostate cancer and suffering be replaced by more beautiful memories of the wonderful times you have spent together.

My deepest and sincere condolences.

Ian.

[Doseydoe]

He is in peace now. My heart goes out to you at this time, it must be hard for you and your family to think of Christmas. But please put up your decorations and celebrate his memory, joyful and triumphant 🎅

[noirhole]

You have had a hard journey together the last 2 years. You have transcended physical pain and now must do the same mentally. I lost my best friend years ago at Christmas and still thoughts trigger tears. Tears are for happy times lost. I am so sorry for your loss. Embrace the happy times and celebrate your life and times together.

[Dachshundlove]

This part of life (the death part) never makes any sense. I cannot imagine the depth of your pain, in losing your life partner. I’m glad he’s no longer suffering and I hope that you have people nearby who will support you in the next days and months. Sending you love and healing energy.

[mangeycritter]

Dear CantChoose,How hard it must have been for you to send along your many posts, especially this last one. Thank you. I hope you find peace and joy in keeping your husband's memory alive.

[Darryl Partner]

Condolences

[Magnus1964]

You have given him the greatest gift, love. Your sorrows are carried with us.

[NRH_Beach]

Peace and strength to you and your family.

[Tall_Allen]

I'm so sorry. Even when it's expected, it's still a wrenching blow. Not this year, of course, but in the future, I hope you will recall the joy he brought to the holiday.

[Cleodman]

So sorry for your loss. He is at peace now and no more suffering. Salute to your warrior and our brother.

[Shooter1]

My eyes tear up every time I read of another brother passing and the loss to his wife/family/caregivers. Feeling your loss.

[SPEEDYX]

So Sorry I feel your loss..May your memories carry you thru the years!!!..Prayers to you!!!

[Boywonder56]

Heavy heart.......

[Hidden]

😭🙏

[dockam]

I'm so saddened to hear of the loss of another Brother to PCa, esp at this time of the year.Rest in Peace and suffer no more

Hugs to y'all

Randy

[middlejoel]

We don't choose the time and place, he does. This year, I lost my partner of 57 years after she suffered greatly for two years. She left us 2 days after her birthday. May God bless you and please, accept my deepest condolences.

jal

[Kaliber]

Well this made me cry. I’m so sorry to hear this. You worked so hard for him, I know he deeply appreciated all you did for him , clearly you loved him very much. My best wishes for you moving into a new future cantchoose , a different reality, hopefully the hurt will pass soon for you.

🌸🌻🌼🦋🌈❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

[tallguy2]

With deepest sympathy on the loss of your dear husband.

[16starsky]

All I can say is I am so very sorry for the passing of your dear Husband,.My heart breaks for you, sending you a virtual hug..

God Bless xxx

[Cheerr]

Dear CantChose, we have seen how you’ve been by his side from day1. I know it’ll never be the same, but I do hope you keep the good memories alive within you and achieve peace. God bless. 🙏

[JohnVonhof]

Wishing you blessed memories and support from family and friends. He was blessed to have to alongside him on the cancer journey.

[Brackenridge]

I’m so sorry to hear of your husband’s death - I have no adequate words to help. All my love and prayers to you 💕💕💕

[NWLiving]

Ohhh. Sounds like it’s been a long journey and I know how much you will miss him. Take care of yourself and rebuild your strength, keep his love with you.

[ron_bucher]

Peace and fond memories to you and your family.

[Schwah]

Thank you for sharing the sad news. So many here share your pain. We hope by sharing we can make your burden just a little easier. I will pray for you.

Schwah

[Stanny1]

Sorry to hear of your loss. Way to young such a terrible disease. We all feel for you. Everyone on this site knows your pain.

[ellie2211]

I'm so sorry for your loss. 🤍

[Ron53]

So sorry...so quick. We all could hope to have the support you gave him

[SuppWife]

I’m so sorry and I send you my deepest sympathy and wish you peace. Godspeed.

[ck722]

May you sleep in heavenly peace.

[Proflac]

So very sorry for your loss. It's hard for partners to stand and watch but it sounds like you did so much to support your man. No one can do better than give their love.

[Stevana]

So sorry to hear of your loss. You helped him fight the good fight and he is now at peace. I hope you will find peace and joy in your life in the near future. God bless you both.

[MateoBeach]

Blessings to him and to your broken heart.

[Hidden]

Condolences and Prayers.

Gourd Dancer

[MMK-XFuture]

Very sorry for your loss. Get comfort from the happy times you spent with your husband knowing you have supported him thru the hard times. Take care and be safe.

[tom67inMA]

Very sad to hear this news but hopefully we all can take comfort knowing he is no longer suffering.

In particular, thank you so much for sharing the news and the details of the difficult journey you both have been through over the last couple months. Many of us will face that difficult hospice decision you grappled with a couple posts ago, and hearing the stories of others gives us wisdom in making these decisions.

I and many others will be with you in spirit during this difficult holiday time.

[ctarleton]

My condolences to you. I hope that his relatively short couple of weeks in hospice were helpful to you both at such a difficult time. Thanks again for sharing some of those details with us as they were happening. So sorry for your loss.

[RalphieJr64]

Sorry for your loss. Yes he is at peace now

[j-o-h-n]

Dear Mrs. CantChoose,

Rejoice!!! There is no better time for your husband to be with our maker than at Christmas. His pain is gone, he is at peace and celibrating the birth of Christ with all the angels and family members that have passed on before him. He is also celibrating this Christmas with you in spirit and in love. You have been your husband's rock while he was suffering here on earth and God has special blessings for you. I never knew your husband's first name but it would be nice to know it, if and when I get to meet him in the afterlife.... Stay Well, Celibrate his living and remember us. God Bless....

j-o-h-n Thursday 12/24/2020 10:24 PM EST

[Collarpurple]

I am so sorry to read this . No words are enoughTo help you but I will say I am soo anger that

that damn C took him . You two fought so hard

against this horrible disease, you gave it your all

Sharon

[Collarpurple]

I was just reading all the Texts. Such love and deep deep sadness from all these people that are going through the same thing . What love you must’ve felt reading these

[Newyork6264]

So sorry for your loss. God bless you and help you find peace.

[msnik]

Dear CantChoose, I thought of you and your husband this morning and wondered how you were doing.....I had not seen this posting yet....so I looked.....oh....I am so sorry.....your post is so gracious....thanking "us"......thank you.....as tom67inMA said thank you for sharing yourand your husband's story with us. As the wife of a man with Stage 4 it is hard for me to

separate my fears and pain from yours.....which I cannot imagine.....no advice here...trying to avoid saying something stupid....rambling for that reason....virtual hugs from a stranger....

and 'sleep in heavenly peace' will have a new meaning for me from now on...tears here....

wishing you the best.

[Lyubov]

So very sorry for your loss, especially at Christmas. Sending comforting thoughts & prayers for strength.

[Scoofer33]

So, so sorry for the loss of your lovin' man! You did a great job of supporting him and that means so much to the men on this site. God bless you now and every Christmas!

[Realistic]

God bless , so sorry for your sad loss. Sending love SheilaFxxx