7 months back, my 87 year Dad began Xtandi. Because of my advocating, he is only taking one am odd number days of the month and one am and pm even number days of the month. Initially, His Oncologist prescribed 3 tablets, 2 x daily. His prostate surgery was 16 years ago. His history: At 35, he was an attack Naval A-4 jet pilot, LtCmdr, VA 163, VA 125, and another I can't remember at this time. Three tours in Vietnam. Yes exposed to Agent Orange on the ground during special ops in North Vietnam. At 62, his prostate was removed and he received radiation for one month post surgery. At 71, his PSA was elevated and hormone therapy began. .
What I have noticed with Xtandi is tiredness and memory as he can remember what he wants to say after some time but can't pull it up quickly. He has Lupron injections every 3 months. Has beat rib bone metasteses 3 years ago. Oh and he had heart stent surgery 4 months back. I live full time and am his caregiver, driver, cook and companion as Mother passed 11 years back. They were a Navy partnership for 58 years, as Dad is retired 4 star Admiral. Not sure why I am blogging all this, but I know it is theraputic for me to write, and I offer you hope, love and empathy along this path. We are on this shitty CA journey together. My Brother and Mother gone from CA DX in 2008, sister a survivor, DAD fighting. Having the profession of a Holistic Practitioner and Caregiver, I know this will be my last Job, DAD. I note all the Silver Linings daily. May you know you are loved.