I got reminded on this post about useing, inappropriate language. I only used it cause I was being honest about my feelings if one can't be honest on on here then it isn't worth it. Heck we all got 1 thing in common cancer. It's not a great feeling being told you have cancer. When you deal with it your attitude about life kinda changes. And i dont need someone lieing about things i need to hear it like it is. Not something nice but the truth. Heck we faced a certain death. Now I'm cancer free because of surgery. But as a man with a penis I'm finished sexually I can't get hard let alone penetrate anyone. But it's cool at least I'm alive. But I don't need to hear something sugar coated. I need to hear it like it is. So i guess i wont be in this room anymore. We need to be real about this. Not talk about something someone wants to hear. The true feelings say it the best.