I am a mother of a 9 year old girl who was diagnosed with adhd officially 2 years ago. Although it's been brought up to me by her teachers since the age of 3 when she started preschool. I fought for 2 years to get her an IEP (independent educational program) now that she finally has a teacher who should be giving her extra help is being mean to her and told my daughter and I at p/t conferences that she'll probably drop out of high school if she doesn't start improving. I'm against medicating my child. What do I do?