We are new to the group and I am needing some help. I have a 12 yr old (7th grade)daughter who is self-diagnosed with ADD/ADHD as well as my husband. My question pertains more to my daughter who I homeschool. We are just battling it relationally with me getting frustrated when things are half done or something is blatantly in an obvious spot, yet she doesn't see it. Her room is a constant mess...the sad thing is I do more yelling and getting frustrated than anything else. This is really damaging our relationship but I don't know how to get it in check for ME. How do you as a parent handle it? How do you stay calm and be patient? I am the type that everything has a home and a place, I don't like clutter, I am very organized and I like to be able to control things. I don't want to ruin our relationship but I need help in how to change myself. Any suggestions PLEASE?