So my mom passed away in 2023. She left behind Wills which weren't discovered and acknowledged by my older half sister who was her power of attorney. I was told by this older half sister that there was no valid will and that all of my mom's assets would be divided among us siblings.
Well, in context, I have two older half sisters, both of whom, are American Indian and enrolled in a federally recognized tribe. They get paid in the thousands per month for being enrolled. They don't have to work for this money. They don't need to have attended any high school or college. They don't have to do anything to receive this money. Also, they start receiving this money which is primarily from the casino industry starting at age 18. I'm not enrolled despite my heritage also being American Indian (as well as my twin sister).
So this older half sister (and her full blooded sister) were about to get 1/4th of all my mom's assets in addition to the money received from the tribe from being enrolled for their being no valid will. Well, months down the road, as I cleaned out my mom's office in her house where I also live with my twin, I came across a valid original Will which changed everything. In this Will, my mom left me the majority of her assets including federal land on which are hotels, restaurants and condominiums. When it was time to submit this valid original Will to the attorney she hired, she failed to provide it to them. She never wanted to submit this to her attorney who was suppose to be representing all of us. So, I had to hire my own attorney and submit this Will to them in order for the court to acknowledge my mom's wishes. When it was time in court to acknowledge this Will, this older half sister submitted to the court a statement against me and my twin claiming we were too unfit to serve as executors to the estate as named in my mom's Will. She claimed our mental health was poor and that she raised us and that made her a better fit. She didn't want to follow this original valid Will. The judge read this statement but still named me as an executor.
Other context, and history: this older half sister while she was around me and my twin and mother while we were growing up, invited a child predator into our house and caused us to be raped. This older half sister went out to the suburbs of Los Angeles and hand picked a gang related man who she brought back to our house who moved into our house to "help out" with the house related issues such as doing the trash. It was a scheme to cause damage and destruction to us as the only women in the house since I live with my mom and twin and we had no brothers, father, or other relatives living with us who could "help out" with the household chores. This sex offender and criminal was planted by her to hurt us and he did. It also affected those around me at the time including other young girls who played soccer with me with AYSO. He was a serial child rapist. When my mom learned that he raped me and my twin in our house from what I told her one night in our house, she was completely shocked and unaware and then forced him to move out that night.
I never received justice for this crime against me, my twin, my girl's soccer team, or other women who were raped by this man. When my older half sister learned that I understood something was wrong with him, and that he hurt me somehow, one day she said to me and my twin "well, you shouldn't have been sleeping with him." This is what my older half sister, when she was in her 30s and I was only 11 (so also was my twin) told us. She claimed no responsibility and no remorse for the situation. My twin developed an eating disorder which almost caused her to die at 85lbs while I suffered from numerous medical exams that couldn't explain the pain I had in my vagina. I went to the doctors and no one asked me if I was raped or why I always came to them for complaints about my vaginal health. When my older half sister once asked me what I was going to tell the doctors, she was mored concerned about what I would say to them about her being involved rather than my own health and well being. She was never convicted of any crime being the mastermind behind brining a serial rapist into our childhood. We were only 11 years old, still children playing with dolls and watching cartoons and this older half sister thought it was to her advantage to cause us harm.
Until now, as I'm executor and in my 30s and dealing in a professional way with her and her attorney with my own attorney through probate, I let the attorneys be the middle men rather than trying to force a relationship between me and her which is unforgiving. My mom had about 4 Wills and in one of her Wills it explicitly says she didn't want to leave her any money or property because she was an enrolled tribal member which meant she already had money and didn't need anymore. This helps me conclude that the other Wills which names her as a beneficiary to any property was likely coerced by her to get my mother to leave her something behind in her Will. She will be making money now from enrollment in the tribe, and also from property left to her from my mother which was coerced. My mother died at age 75, an elder, and vulnerable without a husband or anyone to check up on poor and ill behavior from her children. This older half sister and her child will be making thousands of dollars. They smoke marijuana claiming it's cultural. They drink alcohol. They disturb my peace. They don't want me to succeed in life.
Today, I deal with this older half sister and her children and grandchildren paying unwelcomed visits to my house to distract me, to harass me, to waste my time, and to bother me to prevent me from living my own life in peace. I don't welcome them to my house but they come unwelcome and I leave in my car or go inside the house and lock the door. This is the aggressive and sabotaging experience I have with them. When they text me, it's usually gossip, hate mail, or them pushing their children in my face as if I want to know what they look like or doing in life. They don't respect that I want healthy boundaries away from them, and they don't respect my living situation at my house with my twin. They believe they have the right to interfere in my life. I'm in my 30s now. I'm a rape survivor. I have medical conditions. I don't have any children or my own and I'm not sure if I'm able to have children from the years of untreated PTSD from rape. I don't have a significant other such as a long term boyfriend or even husband. I struggle just from trying to keep a distance from these estranged extended family members who push themselves into my life, as well as my twins. I don't know how society sees this but I have only told you the truth.
I have an older godfather who is 85 years old who lives on the property where I live in an RV parked next to the house. He allows this older half sister's grand child to come over regularly to clean out his RV. I think this is a scam and way to get involved with my life at home and to serve as a reminder of the abuse I have to tolerate with them. This grand child is unwelcomed at my house and I don't talk to him because he was raised poorly. I disagree with his disrespect for me and my twin at our house. My godfather is aware of this being an issue for me and tells me to deal with it. He has rights it seems to invite who he wants to the property since he lives there but I don't agree that it's right for me or my twin.
On Thanksgiving, my estranged extended niece came over to my house unannounced. She pulled up quickly in her car one day before Thanksgiving trying to come into the house "to smell grandms scent." It was disgusting that she thinks that she could do that: come over to the house unwelcomed and to check out things like she some kind of authority or boss over me and my twin.
No boundaries. No apologies. No justice.
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