A imaginary guy

[Saad619]

Hey and good evening to all friends, I will like to thanks to all members who always support me and talk to me in my hard time,its been 46 days of workout and forbidden of junk fast food so far . I have one question to all members please reply me that ,I feel in imagination that I will be perfect lean abs guy soon and then I will be find a girlfriend which I am unable to get because my confidence is zero due to my belly fat , hair lost and poor job . I don't know I can see myself soon a hot good looking guy in imagination as each day I workout hard . kindly tell Me am I delusional or over confident or I will be that hot guy soon??😐☺

[IndigoBlue61]

Well done on your achievement so far Saad619 but take it from me, what girls find most attractive is a kind and generous personality 😊

You need to start loving yourself and then you will gain confidence 😊

Best wishes

Anna

[Saad619 in reply to IndigoBlue61]

Amazing advice thanks

[EllaMidlands]

Hi, there is no doubt most people find slimmer people more attractive than fatter ones BUT I believe confidence comes from within and confidence is attractive. I hope losing weight will make you feel more confident. Stand tall, smile, ask questions, be interested and interesting and the women will be keen to talk. Most women I know are NOT looking for someone totally gorgeous, more for someone who treats them well and makes them laugh. Good luck!!

[Saad619 in reply to EllaMidlands]

Thanks for your

word

[matets]

Saad619 , as you visualize who you want to be in, its also important that you focus on who you are now and celebrate yourself and avoid self criticism. Build your confidence by focusing on your strength areas (what you are good at) than looking at the negative issues that erode your confidence and negatively impact on your attitude. Self confidence is definitely attractive so work on it by celebrating yourself even in your current situation. You could be fit and attractive but with a negative attitude therefore keeping people away from you. You have already done 46 days of workout and no junk food, that's a milestone already for you to celebrate as you go on to become the new you!

I leave you with this quote by Napoleon Hill: “Whatever the mind can conceive and believe, the mind can achieve.”

All the very best!

[Saad619 in reply to matets]

Thanks u so much dear

[jopo]

This is what the nicest ladies want in a guy.

Honesty, kindness, loyalty, commitment, fun, loving and caring.

Prince charmings come in all shapes and sizes so change your shape for you not someone else. You'll find your princess maybe someone who is feeling just like you at the moment.

[Saad619 in reply to jopo]

Omg thanks lot u are so romantic

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I agree, self confidence is what it's all about. Looks don't last and not necessarily what attracts us to others.