Husband heart attack stent fitted still smoking and drinking

[Cat77jf]

Hi my husband 51 had a heart attack,and since this has had a stent fitted with the possibility of another stent in the future. My husband likes to socialise and is now after three weeks is still smoking and binge drinking. I'm trying to support him but feel very worried that this heart attack hasn't changed his ways. It's almost like he's been given a second chance with a stent and is carrying on like before. I feel embarrassed when he smokes in front of our friends. He's a very stubborn person. We have children who are young so one is only 9 and another is 12. I have tried to mention giving up smoking but he's not ready and shuts me down. He's bought the Allan carr book so hopefully it's a step in the right direction. He's smoked since he was in his twenties/late teens . I feel that surely this is a wake up call. I can't sleep at night worrying about him and our children.

[TracyAdmin Partner]

Thank you for sharing your heartfelt message with the members - it is perfectly normal to feel anxious and worried about your husband. I am sure you understand that your husband is the only person that can make the necessary changes himself. He may well be experiencing some trauma following his recent experiences, which can lead to some level of denial in the short term. Continue to be supportive and be there for him when he is ready to talk. Is he due a follow up appointment with the doctor? perhaps offer to accompany him, many need to hear advice from the medical professional 1st hand, which will encourage him to rethink the situation on this occasion. Feel free to contact Patient Services if you need a chat 01789 867 501