Hi all
I have a very close relative in a nursing home right now and I’m really concerned about her being in pain.
She is unable to speak, can’t really move (she can very slowly move her arms)
Recently she has been writhing round in pain with her face scrunched up in agony and her mouth open in a silent scream.
This is incredibly heartbreaking to see. She’s recently been put on end of life care by the nursing home and doctors.
What is bothering me is the nursing home are only giving her paracetamol. I’ve said I don’t think paracetamol is quite cutting it but I’ve been told because she refuses paracetamol the doctors won’t prescribe her anything stronger.
I have tried to explain to them that she probably isn’t refusing the meds, I find she has jaw lock alot of the time which is a symptom of this stage of PSP so maybe they need to try again in half an hour but they don’t seem to understand this.
Am I overreacting here? Do people with PSP endure lots of pain? I’m someone who lives with chronic pain and I know what being in pain looks like and she definitely is in pain.
I have also walked in on the carers trying to force food in her mouth when she clearly has jaw lock or doesn’t want to eat. I am tired of trying to explain all the symptoms to everyone and I’m fed up of telling them that if she doesn’t want to eat then we have to respect that.