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Mum’s challenging journey with CBD is approaching the end. She is now 7 days with no food or fluids. We said goodbye to my stepdad at his funeral on Wednesday. I’m just heartbroken and struggling to find the strength, it’s so emotionally draining saying goodbye every day. I just want mum to let go and peacefully drift away. Her body must be so incredibly strong. She has been prescribed anticipatories but not needed much as quiet and settled. She’s on the hyaline syringe driver to dry up secretions. Her breathing can be quite shallow, some coughs and a bit rattly. How long can this go on? I know everyone is different. Any support or advice? I’m spent all my spare time caring for her and there is going to be a huge gap in my life without her. Hoping to spend my last Christmas morning with her in the nursing home 😢xx

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David750

So really hard to witness the end. Keep talking to her, as hearing is the last to go. Knowing you are there will mean everything to her. 🙏🙏

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bichonbear1

I am thinking of you during this deeply emotional and upsetting time. My mum has CBD and we know that this time is not far away. I can only imagine what you are going through right now. Keep hold of that precious hand ❤️.

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broadie79 in reply tobichonbear1

Thank you for your response and sorry to hear that your Mum also has CBD. This community has been a source of comfort and support. Take care x

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AnneandChris

Dear Broadie

Sending love to you at this difficult time. Losing a loved on is never easy, but even more so at Christmas. My beloved husband died three years ago, the day after boxing day. He seemed to hang on until after the festivities.

Stay strong, keep on keeping on. Hugs

Anne x

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fishponds

sending hugs xxx

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Wartblossom

Twelve days in our case before a peaceful end. Wishing you strength.

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Hug, luck and courage.

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daddyt

Hugs and prayers.

Tim

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Cbui

Wishing you strength, courage, and peace during this difficult time

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