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My recent Facebook post, and I thought I would share this with all of you. I’m certainly preaching the choir by sharing this, but the tender moments I share with my Mom — only those of you here in this forum, fully understand.

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Deep gratitude tonight, as I prepare my Momma for bed. Our time together has grown quiet, her eyes gaze toward me, expressionless most of the time —-

My heart weeps as I whisper, “I love you Momma” I brush her hair, and her eyes gently close - We have a routine, and she expects it. I adjust her body in a seated position on the edge of the bed, I sit down next to her - I hold and rock her in my arms - every night.

An overwhelming feeling floods my heart this time of night; What if this is my last hug? What if this is my last kiss goodnight?

Vulnerable moment for me, but I share this with you because … life is very precious, and this time I’ve spent with my Mom, knowing that every day now is a gift —— it has put things into perspective, and we all should take inventory of our lives.

Appreciate those you love now, while they are here —- why? …. You know the rest.

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Helen119

I’ve had one of those this week, Colin has been take off the venlafaxin and mardasipan over the 2 months. He had a massive siezure after 2 little ones, on Tuesday, then 2 days later as I went to bed I told him as usual I love him very much and he is safe, as walked towards the stair I heard “ I love you too” as clear as anything. What a way to settle for the night xxxx

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bazooka111 in reply toHelen119

I know exactly what you felt in that moment —- mom has done that — so clear, with volume —- it takes me to my knees. Hugs to you my friend.

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fishponds

Beautiful pics and words .Treasure every moment and memory Your love shines xxx

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bazooka111 in reply tofishponds

🥰🥰

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GAS-25

Hi beautiful pictures. Now that mother is no longer with us, it is those moments I treasure and think about, knowing how lucky we were to have them. Xx

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Nanny857

Treasured and precious moments, hold them fast to your heart. As you say Why? Because it is very lonely when they are gone and it’s those precious memories that can help us get through the not so good days.

Love as always Kim xx

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Scottoppy

we all know where you are on this and sharing precious moments makes us all like family xxx

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bazooka111 in reply toScottoppy

This is my landing spot -- this forum and friends is always my go to -- no one quite understands this journey --

Emotional.Thanks.

A big hug.

Luis

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bazooka111 in reply toLuisRodicioRodicio

Hi Luis! I hope you're well! xx

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LuisRodicioRodicio in reply tobazooka111

😘🤗🤗

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ncgardener799

Despite the challenges of this disease, you are both" Blessed beyond Measure" HUGS!!

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bazooka111 in reply toncgardener799

Yes, indeed!! xo

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Perrywrinkle

Wise words and beautifully written. Thank you for sharing. It's always good to remember your thoughts, especially when what's truly precious gets lost in exhaustion and frustration. God bless you in your tender care for your mama.

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bazooka111 in reply toPerrywrinkle

Completely agree! Have a beautiful day! xx

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Motts

You and Moma are such a Blessing... Here & Everywhere... SendingHugs, Granni B

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