It's me MIRIAM again : This is my Dad ASLAM... - PSP Association

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It's me MIRIAM again

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This is my Dad ASLAM diagnosed sadly with PSP.

Very reassuring lots of us going through this together x love and peace I send to you all and one day let's all fight for a miracle of hopefully towards a cure for PSP xxxx

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sammy90210

hi Miriam, sorry to hear of this - reminds me of such pics with my sisters and I, on the beach in Karachi, Pakistan

best wishes as you take care of him

in reply to sammy90210

Hi Sammy.

That's me little and dad at Littlehampton Beach West Sussex back in the 1970.s

Where are you from as so interesting your reply and how has this condition affected you and your family?

Take care too .xx

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sammy90210 in reply to

I am from Pakistan - my dad started having symptoms of dementia some 15 years ago - he started having symptoms of PSP, no downward gaze and falling backwards, towards the end of 2013 - in July 2015 he was bed bound, and I returned back to Pakistan, from Poland, where I took care of him till Mar 2016, when he passed away

I found this wonderful forum and a couple of others on facebook, where I got excellent advice (and a place to rant) and it gave me a lot of useful tips from caregivers, since most doctors, even neurologists and nurses are unaware of the special issues and care related to taking care of dementia patients

in reply to sammy90210

Hi Sammy.

You sound so lovely I'll reply later you have much knowledge and very wise words and helped me already and how special your Dad too from Pakistan xxxxx

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Kevin_1 in reply to sammy90210

Waiving hello Sammy

:)

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sammy90210 in reply to sammy90210

thank you Mirriam and Kevin :)

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Julieandrog

Hi and welcome sadly. I love when people post pics!

Julie

in reply to Julieandrog

Thank you my Dad was an amazing dad the best happy memories.

I'm really humbled to be in touch with a group of all us folk going through psp.

We're not alone and will fight this utter despair of a condition.

I'm fragile very fragile and need to stay strong on this journey. We all do xxx May I ask how everything has affected you and thank you for your reply xx

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Duffers

Hello miriam. Welcome with sadness. I don't post very often but i read all the posts and when I need help or advice there is always some lovely person on here to offer it. My hubby has PSP and we live in London. All the best to you and your father. Marie

in reply to Duffers

Oh my goodness Marie what reassuring kind words .

I feel for you and your husband so very much .

I'm glad I've found this website it's comforting.

I am very strict and believe so so strong from my heart and soul as difficult what life may throw at us and it's of real true test of real soul mate love if your a lucky one :

FOR BETTER FOR WORSE

FOR RICHER FOR POORER

IN SICKNESS AND IN HEALTH

TILL DEATH DO US PART X

And if your lucky like me think that if we had this truly devastating illess they would love and look after us and do all they could do x

I thank you for your post and kindness to me and wish you my warmest thoughts and wishes .kind regards Miriam

I have a crippling condition to me to manage and it super affects me and my husband especially but we love each other loads he's really looked after me as a husband and some how or other our love remains and stays strong and we pull always pull through very tough times as we are now it's not easy you feel like giving up sometimes .

I'm blessed to have my husband and our two beautiful girls and blessed to of had an amazing such special dad and so special and his family continue wow his beautiful granddaughters I gave birth to and they all love each other to bits and pieces.

I have to hold on to these words and thoughts xxxxx

Take care too Marie and your husband x Bless you xx

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Kevin_1

Hi Miriam

Great loving photo.

Waiving hello

:)

Kevin

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Marie_14

Miriam what a lovely photo of you both. You obviously love your Dad very much. It is a horrible condition that your Dad has. Nothing much we can do apart from being there. In your case that is not easy.

I hope you are well soon. When you are please be careful driving!! Take it easy?

Take care.

Marie x. (The 2nd one).

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