Just a quick question. Does your love one with this awful disease become selfish and demanding? I finally, after many suggestions, made the decision to take a break and go on a vacation. When I told my sister of my plans and why, her first reaction was "What about me? Who's going to take care of me?" She never expressed a concern of what would happen to our father, who I also take care of. This is only a single example of many statements that kind of hit me the wrong way. Anyway, I was just curious if this another symptom that we as caregivers have to endure. It's not a pleasant way to spend a day among the other things we deal with.