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Last night, Janet died in her sleep.. I'm not sure if I've met any of you. But she is now free of this horrid debilitating, awful illness. Pls don't even talk about a god. Love to you all, Steve xxx

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Heady

Oh Steve, I am so sorry for your loss, but glad for Janet, that she is at last free from this evil disease.

This is the final battle with PSP, learning to live without your wife. Please don't let it win that fight as well. Grieve in your own way and at your speed, not what others dictate!

Sending you lots of love and a huge hug.

Lots of love

Heady

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jillannf6 in reply to Heady

HI HEADY

WHAT A LOVRLU

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POST U HAVE WRITTEN

LOL JILL

AND PS SORRY ABOUT THE DELAY IN REPLHIGN

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Patriciapmr

Dear Steve,

I'm truly sorry to hear your sad news and am thinking of you and all your family

With love and hugs....Pat xx

I'm so sorry for your loss...we are here with you Steve. Janet is no longer suffering xx

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gypsywoman1947

It's very saddening but pure blessed relief for your dear wife, such a cruel illness. In time the happier times will be lovely memories for you I hope. She is at peace , my best wishes to you as you grieve.

So sorry for your loss, Steve. Sending you hugs and comfort.

Love, Jeannie

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Yvonneandgeorge

Steve so sorry to hear about Janet, she is in a better place, also sending you a huge hug xxxxxx

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jzygirl

Thinking of you at this sad time. Janexx

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NannaB

So sorry Steve.

Sending you a big hug.

X

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goldcap

Steve, Good for you for having the guts to say in your sorrow what some of us are afraid to admit we feel (even if just from time to time).

She is not suffering anymore and fortunate she passed in her sleep. Funny (ironic not ha ha) expression-pass. Appropriate, as they relinquish their pain and suffering they pass it on to those left behind. I think every time someone posts the loss of a loved one we know...

I wish I could turn back the clock and and give you back some of the precious moments with Janet but I can't. Hold tight to the memories of the good times before PSP and the good days during. I hope those around you are kind to you. Take care of yourself now. We all love you!

Jayne G

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jillannf6 in reply to goldcap

LOVLEY REPLY JAYNE G

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Doglinton

Sorry for your loss but Janet is now at peace. There is no sense in this suffering.Take your time to grieve and remember all the good times. I don't know how I will cope with the emptiness when C dies but it has to be done.

A big hug Jean x

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Chris_F

Hello Steve,

As you say, 'she is now free' and RIP Janet, clearly you were well loved. When Elizabeth's time comes I shall be sad and free to grieve, but I sha'n't be sorry.

Fond regards

Chris

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Amilazy

Hi Steve sorry for your loss but at least her suffering has now ceased, now is your time to move on, recover and start doing the things you and Janet had wanted to do before PSP took its toll. Take care of yourself and best wishes Tim

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Baruli

Steve, So sorry to hear of your loss. May you find comfort in your happy memories of her and the fact that she is finally free of this cruel disease. Many hugs from across the miles

Thinking of you Steve, sending you a big hug of comfort. Love from Lyn CBD sufferer.

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Robbo1

Sending sympathy and love. X

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Troubles

Keep Strong Steve as I say now! but! seriously I don't know how I will cope when my love with PSP goes. This disease sucks n all I can say I hope I never get it cause it I think I would be the worse patient wanting out, like I believe most of PSP suffers feel... This is where Janet is now out of pain n u r sad. You loved her n stuck it through... U will give others the strength. I'll say it again u were both so strong u cared n did it your all. Enjoy the fun memories ox

So sorry for your loss try stay stronger than u were ever before 💜 its time now for u to look after yourself..

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shasha

dear steve i am so very sorry to hear of your sad loss much love

shasha

So sorry for your loss may Janet's soul rest in peace. Will keep you in our prayers to journey on with courage and love. Thank God for the beautiful memories. I too am struggling everyday about my husband who has PSP it is indeed heartwrenching to see our loved ones go through this. The Lord be with you

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blackcushion

So sorry steve for your loss sending hugs, rip janet no more suffering to this cruel hateful disease . Look after yourself steve xx

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lsf7

Steve so sorry for your loss. Think of the good times, draw strength from them.Hugs and prayers for you.

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KatherineParr

Dear Steve,Janet is free now. When my husband died I felt that I walked him out of his bed and out into the fresh air and back into daylight. He was freed.

It is time to look after yourself now. X

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onthemead in reply to KatherineParr

Katherine, that is so true. No better description. Xxxxx

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AmandaF

So sorry, Steve. It must be a very big shock, no matter how long Janet had been ill. Wishing you strength and hoping you are not alone. Amanda.

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Barbara71

So very sorry to about Janet. I will give you a ring love Barbara and Mike x

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Barbara71

Barbara 71 So sorry to here about Janet, But she is at peace from this cruel disease. Keep strong Steve x

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onthemead

Thanks Barbara, see you soon xx

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nanonthenet1

So sorry for your loss, my thoughts are with you and your family xx

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timinsuranceman

I am so terribly sorry

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Judymichelle

I am so incredibly sad for your loss. This is a horrible disease and watching my mother-in-law wither away. I say everyday day there's no way there's a god.

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