Panicking and scared..

[Emma-1]

Im pregnant for the fourth time ( last 3 ended in miscarriage) everything going well... getting a little bump.. feeling sick as from day 1... tiredness.. all the syptoms ive had from the start apart from my boobs no longer being sore.. which the midwife told me they wouldnt be sore for much longer at 10weeks... but i just cannot think straight am convinced there is something wrong. Av got my dating scan on monday where i will be 13weeks i paid private for a scan at 10+4 as ive never reached 10 weeks before and starting worrying. Everything was fine by baby was there wiggling about and moving its arms and legs it was magical. But since wednesday am been hit with this terrible worry that somethings not right :/ Fingers crosssed everything will be fine x

[sa4ahlh]

Hi Emma

Absolutely understand that you are concerned, especially if you have had previous miscarriages. I would imagine every woman goes through the same worry that early on. I know that up to my 12 week scan i was convinced that there would be nothing there!

I know it's easy for me to say but please try not to worry. If you have had no indication that there's anything wrong, i.e. no pain or blood then there's no reason there should be anything wrong and worrying and stressing may be the only thing having a negative effect on your bubba at the moment.

Best of luck with your 13 weeks scan Let us know how it goes. It will be amazing I bet

Sarah

x

[Emma-1 in reply to sa4ahlh]

Thankyou very much fingers crossed

[Skyblueboston]

I felt exactly the same as u due to a previous misscarriage! But I know just make myself think, no blood equals a happy baby, I'm now nearly 20 weeks x

[Emma-1 in reply to Skyblueboston]

I really try to think this but with me having missed miscarriages ive never bleed first :/ x

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IV had the same feelings with this my 2nd pregnancy, I have a 3 yo, I took 9 months to conceive him and nearly 2 years for this 1 so although iv never experienced miscarriage personally I don't get caught pregnant easily .I know a lot of friends that have experienced miscarriage at all different stages and can't help but worry. I lost my beloved grandad last year and found out I was pregnant 2 days after being told I was being made redundant from my job of 10 years so a lot to deal with! Luckily they found me a new position last min, just b4 Xmas!

I'm 12 weeks tomorro and got my 1st scan wed. I considered a private reassurance scan but freaked myself out they would give me bad news so didn't book 1! I did however get a doppler and keep got baby's heartbeat the 1st time last mon so I'm feeling better and looking forward to scan on Wed now.

My symptoms with my son and this 1 are as different as night and day, with my son my boobs grew straight away and we're so so sore, I had slight nausea for a few weeks, nothing else!

This 1 no initial symptoms, no boob growth and still not half as sore as they were with 1st, sickness and nausea causing me to loose a stone to date , had my 1st ever migraine, itchy armpits? Feeling so so tired , blocked nose and feeling generally rubbish.

The worry never stops! There's always something to b fearfully of where ur child is concerned but u just have to put them thoughts aside and enjoy it.

[Emma-1]

I was the same about the reasuurance scan.. backed out but the bloke that does it knows my mother in law so he convinced me to go for piece of mind as he said worrying is more bad then good so i went and the experience was sensational... The pregnancy has been so different from my last 3 pregnancy symptoms wise.. ive suffered from migraines and itcty armpits too haha.. i also am constantly sneezing for some strange reason :/.. Me and my partner had such a bad year last year with my sister suddenly passing away and miscarrying.. when i found out i was pregnant this time my otherhalf was made aware there company is not doing well so he can lose is job at anypoint but thats life isnt it... never treats u well.. Ive also got a fetal doppler but av convinced myself it isnt the heartbeat am hearing but the placenta instead.. when i went for my private scan he let me listen to the babys heartbeat and it does sound the same as what i do find but still convinced.. Hoping these next 2 days go by fast and everything will be okay with my little baby all i can do it cross my fingers and pray xx

[Loxz]

If its placenta or your heartbeat ot will be slpwer if you hsve the ones that tell ypu the heartbeat i think 121 + is babys ours is half of theres and the placenta makes a swoosh you will hear the sound of a train or s constant gallap apparently that indicates the sex to midwife they often no.if ypu still feel pregnant try not to wprry.i had a cheap doppler n fpund baby alot but it is hard n u have to b patient if ypu find ot n end up having to chase iys baby.these can b gpod bit make is worry 2 much good luck.ive had so many miscaraiges am 5 weeks and slight lower cramps so im worried we have to stay possitive xx