Misscarriage at 8 weeks with triplets

[Tubee]

Found out at 6 weeks i was carrying triplets, 8 weeks in and i woke up pouring of blood.. i fell pregnant accidental. But was over the moon as time passed. My other half has 2 kids already and said he wanted more but wasnt ready. Now ive misscarried he says he doesnt want them.. i am absolutely heartbroken that ive lost my babies and now ive been told my partner of 7 years doesnt want them. Im still in the process of loosing them. And have to go to the clinic for a follow up nect week but im so lost my world has ended.

[Rainbowbaby22]

First I would just like to say sorry about what your going though. Maybe your partner is just in a bad place after your miscarriage. It can all change he may just be down as its a loss for you both. Maybe give him a little time. Times a great healer. Sending you lots of hope 💓

[Ranchu90]

Oh I am so sorry to read that. Men don't have maternal instincts so they won't fall in love until babies are actually born so don't pay much attention to that. I hope you are coping well with this devastating news. I am sending you all my love and support, you are not alone. Be strong ❤️🤗

[Sevy571]

I feel for you, I can't imagine the pain you are going through. Just wanted to say that your partner's reaction might be his way of dealing with the loss. Sometimes when loosing something is too painful, we feel like we don't want to have it at all ever in the future, but it is only a coping mechanism to protect us from the scary and painful idea of further loss. Give him time, and take all the time you need to grieve. There are support groups for miscarriage, where you can talk you feelings through. Sending lots of love.

[Bella_Bee]

How soon after miscarrying your babies did your partner say he didn't want anymore kids? Sounds like an asshole move to me at such an awful time, sorry. Do you want kids?! If so, leave him, get some grief counselling, lean on friends and family and life will be better in 6 months. I'm so sorry you lost your babies. Losing him will pale in comparison. Hugs