Anxiety 2 week 5 days left

[Afrohair]

Hi there I know some of you may be recognising me and my posts lately but I've had a lot of support on here and you have been more help than you can imagine and I thank each and everyone that has supported me on here.

I'm booked in for an elective c section in two weeks 5 days but have said if she tries to make an appearance before then I will possibly try a vbac after 2 c sections .i have give birth naturally before my c secs 15 year ago so I know the process but after attempting labour 4 times already one being a misscarrige I can say that there's no easy way out in regards to the pain. I attempted a vbac last successful pregnancy and contractions are so bad I do not want to speak! my misscarrige was a full day and half contractions didn't seem to stop I didn't have a d and c and my body dosent agree with pain relief .sadly in labour all it does is make me vomit so I have no choice but to do all natural people who have had no c secs are very lucky to get to 3 children and not have one.

Anyway I'm blabbing

Just recently my anxiety is high I keep thinking something may happen to my baby now it's all coming to an end it feels too good to be true any advice for managing this.this has all sprung from my misscarrige last year and my mum having a still birth I keep thinking the what ifs I can't seem to get it out my head that nothing will be right till I know she's safe in my arms

[AllWeNeedIsluv]

Awwww my love bless you. Take deep breaths and try to listen to some hynobirthing videos or mp3. Ladies suggested them to me on here and they are really really good i know you don't have long left, but trying to get your mind in a good place really will help. Panic is just going to keep you in overdrive. Keep thinking positive calm thoughts hun and try not to think of what ifs. It never helps. Sending you a huge hug. You've got this Mama 💗😘

[Afrohair in reply to AllWeNeedIsluv]

Thanks lovely