No fatal pole at 8 week

[bhawnas64]

I was supposed to be week 8 week pregnant today according to my lmp 14th January..i had my ultrasound today and they say- MSD 7.1 with yolk sac but no fatal pole. And in findings they say "missed abortion"?. I have no bleeding or pain yet. What am I supposed to do.

[Seb9]

I'm really sorry that you've had to go through this, when the embryo had no fetal pole detected the pregnancy is not viable. As you've had no pains or bleeding your body hasn't yet realised that this has happened.

Your doctors should offer you a couple of options from here, you can wait until your body realises what had happened, you'll start to bleed.

You can have medical management when you take some tablets which should tell your body to start the process.

Or you can have surgical management, where they can remove the embryo.

When I had my missed miscarriage.

I had the surgical management so that it was over as quickly as possible, I felt so upset that my body hadn't realised I didn't want to wait for it to happen, but you can choose what route you want to take.

There's more information here about then along with links for more support if you need it tommys.org/pregnancy-inform...

Again in really sorry for your loss, it's very sad, it happens to women so often but it's heartbreaking every time xx

[bhawnas64 in reply to Seb9]

Thank you....i tried 2 IUI and 1 IVF, nothing happened and this time I concieved without any medicine. We are trying from last three years, we were so happy from last one month (since we found postive pregnancy result). This is so difficult to accept that God had given us happiness just for a month. This was first time I conceived and felt si Good about myself. My husband was crying when i told him about my positive Beta HCG, he took such good care if me in last one month....I was so hopefull this time that finally God is kind to us...I am still positive that atleast I can conceive with partial tubal blockage and fibroids naturally....but this pain...this loss is too much to bear...I just wish God give me just one child and let me be someone's Mom...I wish !!! Thank u for the support...

[Seb9 in reply to bhawnas64]

It is definitely a positive that you've conceived naturally this time, I really wish you all the success for the future and I'm truly sorry for your loss xx

[bhawnas64 in reply to Seb9]

Thank u Seb9

[bhawnas64 in reply to bhawnas64]

I have had mifepristone and will hv mefiprostole day after tomorrow. I just hope that i will conceive again soon, and yes it is positive that i conveiced naturally...even when i failed to conceive with IVF. Thanx for the support in difficult times. Regards Bhawna