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Hi am 32weeks 0day pregnant my due date is 16july2018 could someone please help me find out which date I conceived please I slept with 2 guys and only just found out yesterday the last guy I slept with is my blood cousin I had sex with my ex on the 14,16,17 october2017 and the other guy who I'm just found out is my cousin on the 20october please someone help me

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Kate91

The problem you have is that its within days of sleeping with both men and sperm can survive for up to five days within your body after ejaculation. the dates of sex are too close to be able to tell who the dad is by conception dates, the only real way to know is a dna test once baby is born.

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Hi thank you for your reply and I took an emergency pill on the 21st of October

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Unfortunately even that is not always definitely going to work, I would be inclined to think the father is more likely your ex but without a DNA test there is no way to say for sure.

Wow. There is no way of telling until the baby is born and you can do a DNA test.

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Kathy_t

Did you get a Harmony test done? That tests using DNA - is there no way they could test ahead of birth?

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roxannacar in reply to Kathy_t

I don't believe harmony test can be used as paternity test but I stand to be corrected

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roxannacar

As above no way to tell as the dates are too close. The emergency pill doesn't always work either.

There's nothing you can do at this point apart from wait fir baby and get a DNA test once born. If you truly don't want this baby, adoption is always an option.

Oh dear, yeah dna test after the baby is born. Dates are too close together.

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