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Hi everyone , if you had one wish you were granted what would you change and why. Clive x πŸ€—

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Covid to go away to see my family and my brother to be happy all of the time because he makes me smile and laugh when he is happy

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That is beautiful Hiba hopefully your wish will come true shorter than you think .πŸ™

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Hopefully ☺️

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Your wish for your brother is such a selfless wish. ❀️

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Thank you πŸ™β€οΈ

Hi I would like to change that I've been single for many years and when I wasn't was waisted years putting up with horrid men that treat me bad and now I'm too old and can't meet anyone never go anywhere to so wish is to meet my soul mate πŸ’›hope your wish comes true πŸŒ›πŸŒŸπŸŒ πŸŒ πŸŒ 

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Never give up on your dreams and don't put yourself down..Clive x πŸ€—

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Thank you that's very kind of you take care xx

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Clive is right, don't put yourself down or knock yourself. Lots of love and hugs Lynne xxxx β€οΈπŸ€—πŸ’œπŸ€—

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Hi Lynne thank you for your kind words sending hugs from Mandy and pixie πŸ’›πŸ˜ΊπŸŒ›πŸŒŸπŸŒ πŸŒ xxx

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You are very welcome. Sending hugs right back atcha. Looks like we are going to be getting a cat in the next couple of weeks. We've been looking at the rescue ones. Xxxxβ€οΈπŸ’œβ€οΈπŸ’œ

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Hi Mandy,

Thank you for being so vulnerable and sharing with us your wish. It takes courage to be vulnerable. Age is nothing but a number and in my books you're still young and vibrant. Wishes are answered everday and I do hope yours comes true soon

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Hi thanks that's very kind of you I think I must have been horrid in a previous life to be honest and paying Khama back the past 7 years in particular have been one thing after another I think I'm moving on and another disappointment happens loosing my job and a house I was hoping to buy after just trying to accept another one I missed after waiting 8 years for it to come up for sale next door to my mam which I missed due to having rats for over a year so I couldn't put mine up for sale, I was deleting photo came across one of my dad burst out crying thought I had accepted his death I think I'll have break and keep off here for while I'm too negative and gloomy I used to be a positive happy force on here sharing my lovely park photos and doing fun posts I've lost my mojo take care β˜ΉοΈπŸ’πŸŒ›πŸŒŸxxx

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When life hits us with one disappointment after another, its devastating and it naturally effects us to our very own core. This doesn't mean that you're horrible or were horrible in a previous life. You're grieving for your father and all that has happened to you in life. Pls hold on to the hope that better days are yet to come.

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I'm here if you need me. Lots of love and hugs Lynne xxxx β€οΈπŸ€—πŸ’œπŸ€—

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Curly 1. You just never know what is around the corner. I think we all worry about being on our own. But unless we start looking at different ways to make new friends we never know. And a lot of people are thinking exactly the same way as you

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You’d be surprised how you can meet someone when you’re not expecting it. Have you thought of trying one of the online services?

I met my wife via an online dating website and we’ve been married for 15 years.

Never give up hope!!

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Hi thanks I'm on one just can't be botherred at moment I believe in fate I'll look nearer summer and see what virus is doing take care 😊🌟

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I wish you the best!!

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I thought that on here but I had my backside kicked and I have learned my lesson . Clive.

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That’s not good!!

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I can assure you it wasn't

Hi Clive, I thought long and hard about that and decided that I wouldn't change anything. It's tempting to wish away the hard time we've been through for the past year, but you can't really wipe out your troubles and one will just replace another. And in terms of the good things in life, I'm pretty contented really. I've enjoyed a longer life than many and had many lovely adventures and experiences. So I think I'll just stick! πŸ‘πŸ˜ŠπŸŒΈ

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Hi Sue I like your new photo,you look very serene and it's a comfort I think to see a comforting face looking back when recieving replies that's why I keep mine on, someone once said after I'd ponderred should I have photo on he had just lost someone and said it was a comfort to see me smiling back at him it was a different photo from few yes ago so I changed it,no big smile on my recent one as need dentist lol, I understand that people like to remain annonomous as I was at first and had photo of me with pixie hiding half my face, but I wish more would put photos on when I first joined the ones that I became friendly and drawn to first had photos on even tho not that close up bobbybob Jerry Alicia you and I find it easier to remember a face than a picture and out a name to it well I've wrote another novel nearly and just intended to say nice photo and that's so true what you said another problem will emerge as that's life, I'm still trying to get my head round how I can't so close to been able to start again in a house I'd have felt secure and home in main reason next door to my brother well niece n nephews dad and all the friends on that block, him and his partner a good friend also get back from been stuck in Tenerife soon he went to see his brother before Xmas they have to quarenteen said didn't want to come back he will be disappointed he's got new nebour and wasn't me, and of course I'm still disappointed just for sake of a month I lost my job if I'd have known if not work for 3 month's I'd be off the system, well I been keeping busy in garden fense painting getting rid rubbish I still don't know whether to sell up incase house comes up put notes through doors before go on the market and I'll be in better position with more scope if mines sold sorry for the novel lol hope you have a peaceful day πŸ€—πŸ˜ΊπŸŒ›πŸŒŸπŸŒ πŸŒ πŸŒ pixie wrecked another pole lol

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Hi Mandy and thanks! It was among some which my daughter posted of our adventures together over time and that one was taken while we were in Warwick early last autumn. I probably looked nice and serene as I think it was taken while we were out for a meal. (Oh how long ago it seems now!)I think you've been incredibly brave to start over in your old home and who knows? Over time you may find that you are comfortable enough not to need to move again. That could be a bonus as moving is always a big upheaval and expensive to boot. But I do understand that sometimes you just can't get past what drove you away to begin with. Good luck with that anyway.

Pixie has indeed demolished that scratch post! (And isn't a bit perturbed about that either, I see). I bought Kasar one of those flapping fish toys yesterday and he took to it right away, but it's very noisy and last night he kept bringing it into the bedroom where it woke us up a number of times. So an eviction followed and peace was restored! 🀣. Have a good day Mandy and a great weekend!

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I'm with you to a certain extent. It seems ridiculous to say this but a great many good things have come about in the last year. It has been a truly horrendous year in so many ways but there have been so many acts of kindness and selflessness. I would love for everyone to be happy and caring of others. X

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Imaaan

My health issues have allowed me to become more empathetic towards the suffering of others, increased my inner strength, elevated my level of patience and made me more grateful for my many blessings. That said, my wish/desire would be to have a clean bill of health.

If I could make an altruistic wish, then my wish would be for the world to be better starting with the human race.

My wish would be for everyone in this world to be kind to each other. I wish all my family and friends and of course everyone on here a clean bill of health.Take care and stay safe Lynne

Hi thanks for giving me hope lol nice to see you on πŸ€—I'm 57 soon I feel I'm looking older and I never go anywhere to meet anyone can't be botherred with online dating even tho I'm on a free site I met loads few yes ago I saw a few twice I may have met someone in my job as passenger assistant but unless I can get re employed that's no go, I like it to be gradual as a friend then I'm more relaxed no pressure to impress lol and you better if got stuff in common can I ask how you met πŸ˜ŠπŸ’›

Oh that's lovely I do niece in fate and astrogy as you know, I did get asked out by someone off face book as was selling a old Henry hoover cleaner he wanted it for work he was 13 yes younger so that put me off he said you don't look your age I had mask on lol I did take it off and he messaged me after he took the hoover and asked if I wanted to meet up I said yes then I paniced and said no lol well some men just want a koogha too that put me off lol 😁😁

Lol my niece nephews dad had it in his garage to hoover his car he was throwing out I put in my shed was no bag with it I have my dad's hoover mam's nebours I had one that blew up from bingo lol I have a heavy one I hate I had another that broke my niece gave me one too lol I think that's enough l mam's Vax never worked properly my sister has a steam cleaner I'll probably get a light weight cordless one like mam and niece but you can't hoover a full house soon gets full but pixie was at mam's then she got a exchange as it broke my niece's has been ok I've put a gardenning post on must get dressed now and get out in sun hope you have a nice day and some sun take care and hope to see you on posts again soon πŸ€—πŸ˜πŸ˜ΊπŸ’

Re pixies claw pole my lockdown beard lol

I could wear the beard on my dates and they won't judge on looks theyl judge on personality lol 😁😁😁

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Becksagogo

Selfishly I would like good health. I have lived with heart failure for 4 years and would love to be able to run, skip, take the dog for a good walk and breathe.

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MSnWV

My son is autistic. He is an adult now but unable to live on his own.

He has never had a best friend to just hang out with. He has never got to do any of the normal type of things a person should experience growing up. I like to think we are best friends but I don’t think he feels the same way.

He has never had a girlfriend even though he was a cute kid and has grown into a handsome young man. If things were different I would have beautiful grandchildren and he would have a beautiful wife to grow old with.

So if I had one wish it would be to let him live the normal life he deserves and should have been given to too start with.

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cljones

That they find a cure for MS.

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We would have peace, love, and no more wars πŸ˜‡. Yessssssss I would wish/pray for heaven on earth. πŸ™πŸ˜‡

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