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Tribal Sleepover

For any of us

Who struggle with fuss,

Who long for long nights long ago,

When laughter was king,

Bunk beds just the thing

For celebrating, democratising

Slumber and napping and so

Much learning and yearning

And schoolgirl churning,

No road where we couldn’t go.

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Pushing back sleep, no counting sheep,

We wanted it all in one night!

Tights, bites, trite pillow-fights;

Such impatience! It just wouldn’t keep!

Taut, sticky fists; cheese twists, midnight trysts,

Ambitious to-do lists…

We’d flourish and sweep, then heap

Experimental snowballs; crème de menthe calls!

The greener the better to match

Our faces at dawn

When we, all forlorn,

Forced yet another one down the hatch!

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There was always one

More practical than some

Who had it all in hand;

Quashed inevitable quibbles,

Hasty, tasty those nibbles,

Emblematic of truce and pact and band.

So simple the ritual,

Some might say spiritual;

And yet… and yet… and yet…

We shied away from ritual habitual,

Terror – it did us beset;

For we sensed then as we now know

Each tangle, each tumble,

Each night a-rumble

Was special and sacred and whole.

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Older now, what wouldn’t we do

For another night, a crew,

Companions of whom we’re fond?

Finding our berth, our bunk,

Our heady, our chunk

Of special and sacred, our bond.

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Familiar gazing and blazing

And midnight grazing,

Tucked away in the starry chill;

The haste that we packed

Into moments of waste

Long ago lies waiting still.

And we know now that we knew then

Our promise we would fulfil;

We would find a way to furnish our den;

Our page, it would meet its quill;

We would walk this trail and thrill.

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This clan is new to us;

Its faces are glorious,

Its words, its tune, its song

Fresh to ears humming

Lines that we’re strumming,

That tell us that we belong.

Though virtual our sleepover,

Remote our makeover,

We will claim absolution lifelong.

Each promise we braid

Into tresses of jade

Is a pledge we commit to our throng.

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There are moments in time

When mirrors confuse us

With lines and hair silvery,

When the petulant mime

Of complex arrangements

Rebuts all but simplicity.

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Growing us up is a decision we ponder

In moments that throb and chirp and chime.

And if there are moments of which we’re fonder,

That we choose to squander,

Know that squandering’s not a crime.

Know that growing us up is ours as we wander,

As here and there we climb,

And though that wander may take us out yonder,

Know that there’s plenty of time.

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There was always plenty of time.

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I did enjoy writing this verse!

Nostalgia is my middle name. Or ought to be.

Our childhood and adolescence are our foundation and I look back upon mine with huge fondness, tenderness, gratitude and something approaching reverence.

I know not everyone is as fortunate - and that saddens me.

I hope these lines stir something deep inside the reader and bring joy.

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I tried to attach an audio version of this verse, but failed miserably!

I'm SO not tech-centric!

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Activity2004

This is a lovely poem! Thank you for sharing it with us.😀👍🌈

How’s it going for you today? 😀

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Activity2004

Thanks, Leah :) I did enjoy penning it!

I'm focusing on things other than my pain to try to manage it better and I've rather a lot on atm!

Scans will eventually tell me more.

Hoping you're well, safe and happy ღღღღღღ

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Activity2004 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I’m doing okay today, but was a little tired this afternoon.

It’s great when we do what we enjoy. Would you like to have me add your poem to the Poetry topic for the group?😀👍🌈

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Activity2004

I'm not sure I know anything about the group!

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Activity2004 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

The topics can be added to the postings you do on the create a posting page before you click on the post posting.

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Activity2004

I think you might need to do it for me: that all sounds terribly complicated!

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Activity2004 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Okay, I will do the topic adding for you.😀👍🌈

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Activity2004

Thanks! Anything remotely tech and I'm rubbish 🤦‍♀️

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Activity2004 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I will be happy to help anytime!😀👍🌈

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Activity2004

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BTCCET

So thought provoking Sherin brought back some very special memories of my girls and their friends, for some reason sleepovers weren't the fashion when I was a girl it was always camping ⛺😘

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to BTCCET

That's the beauty of verse, Marilyn, don't you think? The fact that you and I can read the same lines and bring to mind distinct experiences and impressions... 💞

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BTCCET in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I'm not as good with words as you are that's for sure but reading your verse is always such a privilege lovely girl 😘

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to BTCCET

That's an incredibly generous statement, Marilyn! 💜

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honeybug

Ohhhhhhhhh sweetie I’m speechless.

GENIUS is not sufficient to describe.

PUBLISH....this is what we discussed so long ago.

The World 🌎 needs you to pour/blanket it in your poetic love songs.

Praying 🙏 you are doing some better my beautiful in/outside friend.

Much love and thoughts and prayers always my special sister.

EvaJo 🤗♥️🥰🙏🕊🌿🌸🦋

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to honeybug

You are my sweetest ally, my most darling confidante... One step at a time! I'm not sure I have the resources - energy, peace, time, ... - to get my verse out there in its entirety. So much of it still remains unwritten!

But - at this moment - just knowing that this piece has touched you deep within is enough for me...

💞

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honeybug in reply to TheDrivenSnow

All that you have shared with me has moved me deeply. You’re really gifted sweetie.

I think of you often. I don’t chat with you much because you’re working.

But PM me anytime hun. I’ll do my best to reply.

I’m losing my eyesight and there are few days that I don’t struggle with seeing to read/type. Wanted to explain because I owe many replies and I don’t seem to get caught up anymore.

Take care and be safe my sweet sister.

Love and hugs hun.

EJ 🤗♥️🌿🙏🕊

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LotusAFlower

Oh how I love the way you write. The notification on my phone letting me know that TheDrivenSnow has shared a message fills me with both sadness ( is it bad news) or extreme joy to read something so exquisitely written like the artistry of nature... this nurtures my soul. No medicine can cure us all but our mind can take us on journeys through the carefully placed words you share.... much love to you and gentle virtual hugs

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to LotusAFlower

Just knowing that my words have touched you deep inside is a glorious feeling, Patricia

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Marnie22

Great piece of writing.It did make me feel a bit sad though, as I never experienced any of that. I was talking with my psychologist today about how there are massive chunks of my childhood that I don't even remember.

Ooops! Sorry to moan.

Anyway, thank for sharing your work with us. I admire you for being able to write like that.

🙂🌸

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Marnie22

That truly saddens me, Marnie: moan away!

I don't think I would have coped well at all with the challenges of today without that glorious foundation.

If I could, I'd conjure up your childhood for you and have you remember those missing bits in an instant!

May your cares be few,

Your prayers come true,

This day, the next, beyond.

If I could wish one wish for you,

I'd wave a magic wand,

Spell a sunlit orchard of your own,

Fruit billowing low, a pond

So pristine, sparkling, clear and blue,

To drink your fill, respond

To a universe reflected there,

A dewdrop on a frond.

xXx

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Marnie22 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Thank you. You are so kind. I wish you everything good. 🌸

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Marnie22

Ditto! 💞

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🙂🌸

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honeybug in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Oh Sherin 🌿🌸🦋

Precious deeply touching spirit filling.

Love love love this.

EJ ♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰♥️🥰

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💞💞💞💞💞💞

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focused1Reading Rabbits in reply to Marnie22

I can't remember a lot of my childhood either but my parents hardly took photos . The ones they did and I connect so well . I made sure I documented my children's lives . They appreciate it especially as they are starting their own families . Saying that I don't think some things in my childhood could have been filmed .

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Marnie22 in reply to focused1

It's nice that you are doing that for your children. I wasn't very clear - the reason I don't remember is because there was emotional abuse that my mind has blocked out.

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focused1Reading Rabbits in reply to Marnie22

I had a complex childhood and my father signed me up for a course of ECT when I was 16 . After a 9 week stay in hospital I came home in a daze . It took me about 4 years to actually feel I was in the real world . I met my husband and had 5 children. I have never suffered since . I had to detox by going cold turkey and change my diet . Once I had escaped my strange childhood I have never been healthier and drug free of everything I was ever given

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Marnie22 in reply to focused1

Glad to hear that things improved for you.

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honeybug in reply to focused1

♥️

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Marnie22

Marnie, this is likely not the right platform for this, but I must clarify.

My childhood and adolescence were glorious IN SPITE OF:

a) huge emotional abuse

b) sexual abuse over four years (aged 6 to 10)

My school and wider family more than made up for inadequacies and shortcomings in other settings.

I need to tell you this as I may have given the impression of my early life being completely without difficulty.

Far from it.

But I was wrapped in cotton wool by my mother, her side of the family and by my wonderful school such that I was able to take control of my circumstances, stopping the sexual abuse when I was 10 years old and finally finding the gumption to stand my ground.

My mother and I found the wherewithal to put an end to the emotional abuse by walking away from my father when I was 18. A time of upheaval, but everything happens for a reason.

I still maintain that I had the best start possible! Everything I underwent - good or bad - has flowed into my now. Do I have regrets? Sure. Some. But they helped raise red flags that I would recognise later and that helped me exercise caution when it came to my own wonderful children.

I hope all that makes sense!

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Marnie22 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Thank you for your reply. I am glad things worked out for you.

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honeybug in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Oh Sherin my sweet sister ♥️

I’m so sorry you had to endure all of that.

So did I. I completely understand what you mean when you say what you experienced has molded who into you are.

The adage of ...what doesn’t kill you makes you stronger...

Is true in my case especially.

I had a few good experiences that are crushed beneath the weight of the bad.

But I vowed to NEVER treat others as I was treated.

I try to be as positive and helpful to others as I can.

The World would be a better place if everyone could do this.

Love blessings prayers and all things good my precious sister.

EJ 🤗♥️🥰🙏🕊🌿🌸🦋

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focused1Reading Rabbits in reply to TheDrivenSnow

If this happened to you then you have so many qualities to be a brilliant understanding Mother . I feel I almost have a 6th sense stemming from my experiences . Your children are lucky to have someone with the empathy you have .

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to focused1

That is truly kind of you. Emotion rules in our home. As does humour! I am blessed to have the most fabulous children imaginable; they make it easy to remain empathic. 💞

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🤗♥️🥰🌿🕊

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focused1Reading Rabbits in reply to honeybug

Love the pictures. Sometimes they express better than words

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Roxylox

Beautiful

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Roxylox

Thank you 🙂

That is so beautiful Sherin. It feels very calming and nostalgic.

I really hope you are able to have your scans soon.

My thoughts and prayers to you.

Take care

Alicia💞💕🧘‍♀️🕉 xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to

Thank you, Alicia. It's always a pleasure to write about my childhood. And it's a bonus when those memories mean something to other readers, too.

I hope you're staying safe and well xXx

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Isn't it just, my parents were awesome. I agree it really is.

I'm good thank you.

Take care xxx💜💜💕

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springcross

I love it TDS, it's a lovely poem and stirred up some memories from way back. Thanks for sharing it. I hope you are keeping as OK as you can be through the pain and hope the scan results won't be anything to add to your worries. 🙏 How is your doglet's (Annie?) diet going? Well, I hope.😊 💛 xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to springcross

Thank you: I'm glad it meant something to you, too!

Annie is multi-allergic and her diet is intended to get (and then keep) her weight down as well as to address her sensitivities so we can keep her skin and tummy issues at bay. It's going to be a hard slog! She does love her food...

In the meantime, we're having a distressing time with Keisha, one of our other doglets and a grande dame at 11. She's diabetic and needs insulin injections through the day: she's gradually been going deaf and is now completely blind, too. It's heartbreaking. We're having to guide her to do absolutely everything; she can't find her way around at all. Even getting her to drink enough water through the day is challenging; she can't get to her water bowls as she's so disorientated. It's like having a little, dependent newborn. My poor, lovely, stubborn baby girl...

xXx

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springcross in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Goodness, that's a worry with Keisha for you, I'm really sorry to hear that. Heartbreaking is the word when there's nothing you can do but help where and when you can, I can imagine how you're feeling - it doesn't help either as her age is against her too regarding the learning side of things with the senses slowing down because of it. You're having a tough time TDS with this and your own health problems and my heart goes out to you. Thinking of you. 🙏💛xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to springcross

Thank you: Keisha has another appointment with her specialist eye surgeon on Tuesday. We hope to have a clearer idea of how to manage her daily routine then. xXx

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springcross in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I hope it goes well for her TDS, the poor girl, it must all be so strange for her. Also, poor Annie with her multi-allergies. They so love their food I agree and it must be like a punishment for them to be restricted as they don't realise its for their own good. Wishing Keisha all the best for Tuesday. 🙏💛xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to springcross

Thank you for understanding the situation so well. xXx

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springcross in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I've been there many times TDS, I know how it feels. Love and healing to you all. xx

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honeybug in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Awwww poor baby. Sooo sorry hun. Makes those moments all the more precious.

🤗♥️🥰🤗♥️🥰🤗♥️🥰

EJ

Hi Sherin, you are a lady of many talents and this just being one you never cease to amaze me and yes it's a beautiful poem . Clive x 🤗

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to

You're (always) too kind to me, Clive... I'm pleased you enjoyed this piece xXx

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Hb2003

Such a beautiful poem ❤️

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Hb2003

Thank you, Hiba xXx

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Hb2003 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Your welcome ❤️❤️ Lots of hugs and support ❤️❤️🫂🫂

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Hb2003

What a lovely soul you are! 💞

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Hb2003 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

Thank you ❤️ You are too

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Hb2003

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Hb2003 in reply to TheDrivenSnow

❤️❤️🥰😘😘

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Niao

Absolutely beautiful and incredibly moving! Thank you!😊💕💕💕

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Niao

Thank you. I'm so pleased it resonates with you xXx

I love this poem. Thank you for sharing. How are you doing?Lots of love and hugs Lynne xxxx ❤️🤗💜🤗

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I'm so pleased you like it, Lynne. Looking back can be therapeutic and it's certainly a place of refuge for me now as I encounter the kind of physical and emotional pain I never thought I'd have to experience.

Sending love xXx

in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I'm so pleased that it helps you whenever you need it to Thinking of you as always.

All my love Lynne xxxx ❤️🙏❤️🙏

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ShelWhitt

Lovely poem. Nice to hear from you. Sending love and hugs. xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to ShelWhitt

Thank you, sweetness xXx

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Reddg

Beautiful, brings back memories, thank you for sharing

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Reddg

My absolute pleasure. Glad it resonates with you.

Hi Sherin, I can feel the reflectiveness with which you wrote this and I think it will have touched all of us of mature years. As we age, nostalgia becomes a bigger and bigger part of our lives and it can be both comforting and sometimes painful to look back, even at our happiest memories. You've summed up the happiness we all had, or wish we'd had, in our youth. Lovely, and thank you! 🌈🙏👍💖

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I'm so pleased it's resonated with you, Sue! You are right, of course; pleasure and pain, light and shade that we've encountered or experienced in our past coalesce and we look back with a measure of poignancy and yearning.

If I could figure out how to upload the audio version, I'd do it in a heartbeat!

xXx

in reply to TheDrivenSnow

We don't have a facility for that on HU Sherin. We can post links to YouTube videos. How about posting your reading to that, and send us a link so we can hear it! 👍

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to

That sounds scary! (Yes, I'm aware I am a wuss.) I'll send you the audio file via email - just for your consumption! 💜

We still do sleepovers now even as adults but I enjoyed a few as a youngster like going to guide camp one year which was fun.

It will be great when the sleepovers for us can resume!

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GhoundsReading Rabbits

How beautiful, you've made me cry yet again! I didn't have that kind of childhood myself but it must have given you a great foundation to build on. Security, self esteem, feeling a sense of worth and value are all priceless and I know you will have given the same to your son and daughter.

Mr B and I are sending our love and hugs 😘

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Ghounds

And now you've made me cry, Diana!

Security was never in question for me as a child, and I've carried the love that was shown to me right through my childhood years and into my adolescence in my heart as I've progressed through my adult life.

You are right: my childhood and the school I attended have given me the most solid of foundations, the girls from St C's and I still maintaining regular contact some 50 years later. We all take immense pride in the school that sheltered and protected us, yet equipped us with the social and emotional skills and tools we needed to flourish and grow. For better or for worse, my parents elected to have me attend JAGS in East Dulwich for my A Levels, but St C's saw me through my Os.

It was Enid Blyton's school, too, and she served as Head Girl there in 1913-14. The St Clare's books are based upon her time at our school, St C's The Hall School for Girls. The school was also one of Sir Edmund Hillary's first destinations after he returned from conquering Mount Everest.

It has undergone a couple of iterations since my time there and is now an independent, co-ed preparatory school (oh, the shock!)

We know how fortunate we all were and remain, and we've never taken that sense of security and belonging for granted.

You are very kind to say that I've passed on that same regard for key values to my children. I hope that I have!

Love always to you and HGS xXx (p.s. my phone is now beyond redemption and will be finding its way to the phone graveyard shortly)

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GhoundsReading Rabbits in reply to TheDrivenSnow

I used to love Enid Blyton's books as a child and devour them. Also the Chalet School series. HGS has been at the poetry writing again but he has a way to go yet to equal you!! He likes to make the attempt though 😁 xxx

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TheDrivenSnow

I'm really pleased you enjoyed it, Jerry!

I'm never far from HU or PWB: I just have rather a lot on at the moment, so don't often have the time to post, but I did want to share this verse with my friends here. If I could figure out how to upload the audio version, I certainly would!

🤗

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mrmonk

TheDrivenSnow, your poem made me nostalgic for parts of my own youthful memories that have been scattered by a tempestuous childhood. I never cease to marvel at how poetry can make memory and emotion of writer and reader rhyme -- a strange, amazing synchronicity.

I would love to hear the chime of your verse read aloud; in addition to Callendersgal's idea of YouTube, another option would be to upload it to Soundcloud and post a link from there. I have done this with recitations of my own verse, and though I'm no expert, I'd be glad to share what little I do know. Feel free to send a message.

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to mrmonk

I'm not sure about the public space thing! Health Unlocked is different: I feel safe and empowered here, but out there, things are scary! I'd be happy to send you the audio recording via email if you would like? Drop me a private message and let me know...

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kduck

How are you?

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Itzallgood1

This is a beautiful poem. I've read a few of your post and know they're from a while ago. Just from your words I can tell you are at peace with life.💗

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to Itzallgood1

How kind and perceptive you are! I log on rarely now, but encountering your generous comment has lightened my mood.

Thank you

😊

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springcross

I can't believe I've found this, how are you? I've wondered often how you are. 💛 xx

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TheDrivenSnow in reply to springcross

SC... It's so rare to come across PWBers now! I have no idea where anyone is: we're all so scattered! Because I can't seem to find my natural home on HU now that PWB is a thing of the past, I end up staying away. (I've tried anchoring myself within the Metastatic Breast Cancer section of the site, but I find myself feeling quite despairing when I visit...).

I was admitted to Acute Oncology some days ago with heart failure. I simply couldn't draw breath, had palpitations and chest pains. All brought on by one of my chemo/immunotherapy drugs, which has had to be suspended for the time being, leaving me unprotected from the neck down. (My brain is unprotected anyway: I'm not sure if I've told you, but I was told earlier this year that the cancer had spread to my brain).

Lots more, but it's all quite morbid and dull, so let's not dwell on it!

My doglets 🦮🐕‍🦺🐕continue to be a source of joy, though Keisha has recently had to have dental surgery and - being deaf, blind, diabetic and nearly 12 years old - hasn't recovered as well from the anaesthesia as we would have liked. The dental surgeon had to wake her up earlier than he'd anticipated as she was struggling and he didn't want to take any more risks than were strictly necessary, but he's now speaking of further surgery to complete the job he started! I'm not keen! To put it mildly!

Let me know how you're doing... I hope life is treating you as well as can be expected in these bizarre, surreal times we're living through... 🎭💞

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springcross in reply to TheDrivenSnow

It’s lovely to hear from you as the last time we exchanged comments was many months ago on Healthy Eating. I actually wondered if you would get my message as PWB is supposed to be closed but I’m so glad you did.

I don’t post much now and when I do, it’s usually on the NRAS forum. I was on Healthy Eating here and there but don’t bother there much now.

I’m so sorry to hear about the heart failure, what a terrible ordeal you had on top of everything else you’re going through. Sometimes the drugs are far worse than the condition they are supposed to be treating you for, it really doesn’t make any sense and that was the last thing you needed as you have far more than enough to contend with anyway. You did tell me earlier this year that the cancer had spread to your brain – it’s all too much for one person. How is that going?

Also, poor Keisha, bless her. They are a worry when they are young but when they get to that age, it’s a real fear I used to find in case the anaesthetic doesn’t agree with them so I understand why you’re not keen and I would feel the same, but what can you do! I sincerely hope all will be well. 🙏

I’m not doing too badly thanks. I’m having a problem at the moment with wet AMD (diagnosed 2018) and getting the eye injections when I should be having them due to the backlog and also waiting for a much needed cataract op but it’s being delayed because of the fluid behind my macula – they’re trying to dry it up with the injections but it seems to be taking forever. A complication also was a detached retina in January this year so that delayed things somewhat too. I have RA but coping OK with that from time to time.

How is your mother and the other doglets? Well I hope.

I hope we get the chance to comment again TDS, it would be lovely but in the meantime, I so hope all goes as well as it possibly can for you and yours and I’ll be thinking of you. Take care. 🙏 💛 xx

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