Dear HU community
I’m sorry if offended anyone with my posts but I was just reaching out sorry for being negative but I have disabled sister to care for alone and lonely and struggling to stay sober so need tips -/ support for this
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You live in the US don't you? Please don't drink alcohol as you have Covid-19! It will make you feel worse! Have you got any symptoms at the moment, high temperature and a constant cough?
I am not working right now and live in England Dogmad! I live be on my own and yes it is very difficult at times!
Please pm me and don't please, don't despair! Here for you 👌🤗🙏
I live in England have high temp don’t want to give to disabled sister
I understand that totally! Is there someone else who could care for your sister whilst you isolate????
No
This is really a bad situation for you both! I am so very sorry you are ill right now with this bad virus! What is your sister's disability if I may ask? Can she care physically for her self, wash and dress, go to the bathroom???
If you are registered with a doctor please call that surgery Dogmad! You really need help!!!!!
I won’t say but she can’t I rang them today and they said my Covid has been two weeks now so can care for sister ok now but if need more support they can bring home carers in
Then please ask for more support please! It will help you to recover and your sister more cared for! Will you try this please tomorrow morning and ask for more help Dogmad 💞?
Yes what do I say ?
You tell them that you are not feeling physically strong enough to care for your sister on your own and that you need some help for 2 weeks to get your strength back !!!👌🤗💞
Ok
Cool 💞 you are not on your own okay! I don't know you personally but I worked in care homes with people who had disabilities and also Dementia!
We want you both well, cared and loved for Dogmad! You are such a caring person honestly! Bless you so much 🙏🤗💞
Will pray for you both and please do not worry tonight! Try and get some rest after you have settled your sister for the night! Rest and relax then right! You need to sleep! Any problems you know where I am 👌🙏💞🤗
Ok thanks I can’t sleep with lockdown
I say Good night Dogmad, but please message me any time! 👌🙏💞🤗
Ok I can’t sleep upset with lockdown
Dogmad600...... Where do you live(town) in the UK
He might be busy now with his sister Don as he cares for her 🙏
Birmingham
Telephone 0121 303 1234 for Birminham Social Services..... do it tomorrow please, for you and your sisters wellbeing...... I googled the Social Services contact number for you!
They are coming tomorrow
Hi. Try using this: youtu.be/qcnU2sUTvxs
Very best wishes. 🙂🌸
Please get some rest and get a Caregiver for your sister.
They will come tomorrow
That’s great to hear. All day or half day?
All day
That's very good. Are there more than one person coming?
Yes
Good news, try to rest, know we in this community are here to encourage and support you where we can!
I'm so glad you reached out and some help is coming for you and your sister. This may be a blessing in disguise, as perhaps they can put some help in place on a more permanent basis to ease the burden on you. They will have information on other services which may be appropriate for you and your sister. I live with my elderly father and simply could not manage without the carer who comes in every morning for an hour. The stress on our mental health is awful , and you are doing an amazing job to care for your sister. Keep in touch and let us know how you are doing.
No need to apologize, there’s a lot of Negativity out there. Normally I don’t take things personally UNLESS it is Directed at ME! I Never write to offend anyone, it’s just Me venting. My younger brother works a full time job, has 2 autistic kids, a bedridden wife who has brain damage from a aneurysm. Being a Caregiver is EXTREMELY physically and emotionally EXHAUSTING. Try and seek out some HELP? 😷🙏
what are you apologising for - I havent noticed any negative posts from you
Hi Ok . sorry to hear that
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