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I have been reading many posts all or nearly all have Me wanting to help I some way .but i cant i like so many have to stay at home it leaves feeling helpless i have mental health problems and others but I am not giving in all I can say to you all is in my title and peace love to everyone

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Help can take on many forms. This is a great place to offer help with compassion support and kindness. I’m thinking being a friend had got to be the best forms of help one can offer.

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Smilfer165 in reply to Iam22

That's right Ian but any friends?I had never been there for me now I am getting better I find it hard to trust anyone I am reading this back to my self and sounds wrong I am not blaming or complaining I have done so much in my life family parents etc but at the back as been doubt OCD depression now lonely mistrust I will keep trying though.there are so many worse them me and this pandemic I think of others more and to you all the best

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Iam22 in reply to Smilfer165

I am sorry for the feelings betrayal in your past. That makes it so hard to even consider new people. I am no stranger to that reality. Sometimes when we have had a great deal of betrayal we begin to betray ourselves...sabotage our healthy goals. I have found that living my best life sometimes, a lot of the times means to acknowledge that but choose actions that bring about a reality I do want. So from that place I hope you choose to begin conversations. Friendships start off with conversations and fun. You get to decide based on those interactions if you trust them to let them in deeper. If you don’t then leave it at conversations. That’s a known dynamic right. What I am saying is here now you get to decide how much of your words and actions, I. E. The act of kindness , support and conversations you offer to others. Focusing on taking actions that you can take will both help others and empower you. I am saying this to myself as much as anyone else. 💜 thanks for the reminder honestly that I need to keep reaching out.

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Smilfer165 in reply to Iam22

Right thank you

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You are helping. Words hold so much power and when you send words of love to the community, you uplift people's hearts. xx

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Smilfer165 in reply to bobbybobb

I do hope so I mean it so much can not put down in words what is in my heart all the best to you

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Smilfer165 in reply to bobbybobb

Just wanted put out a scam phone number claiming to be gov helpline for shopping etc number 03333050466 just hoping others as well as you know about it some peaple can not put into words

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ellj in reply to Smilfer165

I believe that phone number is genuine from NHS England. I had a letter and text telling me to expect a call from that number.

When the call came I was not asked to give any details that made me concered and the person just asked me if I had any C19 symptoms if I had any way of having shopping brought to me and if I had someone who could collect my medications. He said did I have one of the medical problems which made me extremely vulnerable but told me I did not need to reveal which illness I have only say yes or no.

He then reminded me who to contact if I needed help during the 12 weeks shielding time.

Ellie

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Smilfer165 in reply to ellj

Thanks Ellie been tracking number different explanation s one said it came from France (google) don't what to believe just ask them confirm my details I guess best wishes phill

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GhoundsReading Rabbits

If you have a religious faith of any kind it would be very helpful to pray. If you are not a believer you could send positive loving thoughts out to the world? I think we all feel helpless at times.

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Smilfer165 in reply to Ghounds

Will try find it hard but I will thank you

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GhoundsReading Rabbits in reply to Smilfer165

All any of us can do is try if we feel up to it! Be kind to yourself. Don't feel bad about what you don't do. We all have good days and less good days. It's great that you felt able to reach out on here.

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Smilfer165 in reply to Ghounds

Thank you

And peace and love to you too Smilfer165. This is a really challenging time for so many people, but if you can find some inner strength, you've won at least half of the battle to acceptance. Take care.

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And to you to got the who on tv lifts me a bit look after yourself best wishes

Love back to you too. ❤️

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