This post is a slight 'hijacking' of the forum for a part-personal reason.
Yesterday I had mentioned the crisis my sister had had with her husband overnight. He's the victim of vascular dementia, and yesterday he took a sudden turn for the worse with elevated confusion.
But the warm words which so many people here sent to us, was lovely and deeply appreciated. I passed them on to my sister, and just wanted to report that the current crisis has passed and she's feeling better able to cope now. My brother-in-law has returned to a calmer state of mind for now too. And my sister was overwhelmed that complete strangers to her, had been so kind.
So thanks to everyone who helped support us with their kindness. This was a demonstration of how uplifting you all are and how you help to make this community such a positive and supportive place to be! 🙏
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It's good to hear your brother in law is doing a lot better it must be a great relief to your sister and the rest of the family. Please send my best wishes. Have a lovely day and take care of yourself and your family 😊 Bernadette xx
So many things upsetting lately,and i am so glad things have now settled and your brother in law is much better and hugs for your sister,its a very hard road to travel.
Thanks so much Zoonie. It was a worrying time. But all recovered for now. Just spoke to my brother in law on the phone and he can't remember a thing about it, bless him! 🙏
It is a constant worry to care for someone with vascular dementia
I was carer to my Father who had Dementia and Mental decline
It is mentally exhausting but this is a disease which responds to buman affection and care and just touching the person will make the patient a million times better
My Father never openly affection but in Hospital I touched his hand and he grasped hold of mine
I can see that you fully understand the challenges of caring for someone who is suffering from dementia, having done so yourself.
Sometimes, for so many reasons, our family relationships aren't all that great, but it must have given you a big measure of peace to have held your dad's hand at the end of his life. Moments like that are very precious.
That's so lovely to hear Hidden and I'm so pleased your sister found it comforting. Please pass on my thoughts to your sister at this very difficult time. xx
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