Today my friend Liz was cremated. 5 years younger than me. 2years ago she thought she had polymyalgia but it was bone cancer. A year ago today my other friend Dave died from a brain tumour. He had been a great runner.
Today I went out for a run. I was breathless going up hill due to lung damage caused by RT.
Don't know how my poor polymyalgia muscles will feel tomorrow but it felt good for me today.
Never give up my lovely friends xxxxxc
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What sad experiences. It brings us face to face with our own mortality too.i can relate to your run. The consequences can be harsh. Sorry it feels too much at themes. I have lost and loved people close to me too.
Sadly, many of us are now at the age and stage where friends and family leave this world. The reality of mortality doesn't make the pain of the loss any less, particularly when the departed one's are younger than ourselves. When walking the dogs on the hills I quite often remind myself how lucky I am compared to the pain and suffering of others. Big hugs, take care, stay positive and enjoy each day as it comes.
I am sorry that you have lost two of your friends Devonspinner. It’s commendable that they inspire you towards healthful activities. Please don’t overdo it though, we simply can’t get away with it. Pacing is all.
Oh how sad. A very dear friend of mine died last week, 4 after weeks before diagnosis of lung cancer, he thought it was a reaction to covid jab. So many people I know have died over the past year, not due to covid, it’s so sad, so many deaths from covid and so many others.
Time for reflection indeed DS. I’m so sorry to hear about your friends.
It’s coming up to a year since my 51 year old SIL died of leukaemia. Certainly does make it feel good to be alive albeit tinged with great sadness. Take care 🌹
Sad to hear about your friends Devonspinner. I know from the kindness you have shown me that they had a good friend by their side. Thinking about you. Jen 🌷
I have deep empathy with you ..Losing friends is such a hard and sad thing to digest, especially if they were close friends.
I believe that we all are passing such a dreadful time, especially fighting off our worries of COVID-19 and then the added stress and pain of our PMR/GCA...
We are lucky to belong to this amazing group , there must be many elderly suffers who are left out in the cold, due to the fact they are not internet enlightened.
The advise and professionalism we receive here is second to none ..
Sending Hugs DV 💗 losing my friend Judy to Cancer almost two years ago was so very difficult, l think losing our contemporaries is very hard & impacts upon us in a different way to losing our parents if they die as they get old, as l say ‘in their time’.
I lost my brother when he was only 14years old & somehow that hardened me until Judy died probably because l have had Cancer myself.
It’s good you’re feeling determined but don’t push yourself too hard as you know our PMR doesn’t like it!
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