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A Grateful reply and update from Aunty Bee to all those who have sent private messages and well wishes to me during my current illness

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I just wanted to send a thank you message to all the kind people whom have sent me private messages asking how I am and offering me their caring , positive wishes over the last few weeks during my absence from the forum .

I am sorry that I haven't been able to answer you all personally , but my symptoms are making it difficult for me to do so , so I hope this message to everybody will let you know I have received your messages , what is going on and how much I appreciate your support .

I'm coming through a pretty severe viral infection , which could not have come at a worse time , when my immunity was already very low after the UTI and Cellulitis I had before Christmas.

As you may know , I have Ehlers Danlos , Fibromyalgia and Cardiac Issues on top of the GCA / PMR , so the constant coughing and sickness have taken quite a nasty toll on my system as a whole , regularly disjointing my ribs and jaw , causing a virtually constant level of full body pain , migraines, dizziness and visual disturbances and generally increasing the symptoms of my Chronic Conditions as a whole.

I'm at an all time low , probably lower than I felt when first hit with GCA or Tachycardia , relying on my body supports , braces , bed rest , and assistance from the family to keep me moving to prevent any other circulatory issues until this current issue passes.

To protect myself emotionally , I'm living from day to day on Autopilot , just going through the motions and trying not to think too much about how bad this is all making me feel . Just holding on to that tiny glimpse of Hope , as we have all sometimes had to do, that this too will pass and I can start back on the road to recovery and be my old self again.

It's feeling like a steep road to climb on this occasion though , so that's why the kind words and support have meant so much to me , and , why I wanted to give you my deepest thanks . Seeing the odd message from my forum friends is reminding me that I'm still connected to the world , and your fond wishes and positive thoughts have often soothed the pain just at the right moment , even if just for a little while, you have all helped make me feel a bit more human again. That really was a very precious gift for you to give me.

Thank you all , and please keep safe and well , hugs , Aunty Bee xxx

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Maisie1958

I’m so sorry to hear this Bee. I hope better health comes quickly. All good wishes and hugs, Irene x

💕😘 🐝

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Blearyeyed in reply to

I Hope you are beginning to get better too , thanks for all of your messages xx😘😘😍

I thank you for your message the other day. Please take care and sending positive thoughts xxx

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🌷

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scats

🌞🌞🌞😴😴😴💤💝

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Yellowbluebell

Love youxx

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Longtimer

What a struggle, We are thinking of you.....

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HeronNS

I am so sorry to hear all this, I had no idea....

Best wishes to you on the road to recovery.

💗🤗

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Highlandtiger

Take care of yourself xxx

💕🌹 💕

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Freshmimt

I have missed your posts, sorry to hear of this rotten time your having, best wishes for a very speedy recovery x

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SheffieldJane

♥️🌺

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Thelmarina

You are so courageous and always thinking of others, let alone your superb way with words and comfort. You are missed of course but you are so right to take each day with its small rewards and setbacks. If anyone can cope with this it is you. 👍❤️🌺 xx

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Rose54

Take Care

Sending you a big hug and best wishes

Get better soon

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powerwalk

Hope you feel better real soon.

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Smokygirl

Ohh Bee! I had no idea that you were ill. I am so so sorry! I ‘m waving my magic wand for you and praying that you will improve very very quickly and soon feel your wonderful and humorous old self.

Get well hugs and kisses and loads of love 😘😘😘💕💕💕

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TheMoaningViolet

Dear Bee, I noticed your absence, of course, but I had no idea what you were struggling with. I wish you a steady recovery and return to strength and wonderful humour that I find so life-enhancing. Stay strong and look after yourself. Vxx🌸

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Marilyn1959

Hi Bee. Rest, rest, rest hon. Sending you virtual hugs and warm wishes. X

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Bird-67

Sending all my love and best wishes for a speedy recovery ❤️❤️

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Louisepenygraig

Sending you lots of love and I hope you'll get better as the weather warms up.

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Constance13

🙏💐💥

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Charlie1boy

Really sorry to hear of all the problems going on in your life. I think you have a great attitude, and I wish you well for a speedy recovery.

Love

Paddy

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Pipalina

My goodness, Bee, what a truly tottering time you are having ...I can only wish you better and brighter days to come x

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CT-5012

All good wishes and gentle hugs. 💐

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singingloud

Prayers coming your way.

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York54

Wishing you all the best and sending gentle hugs. Take care x🌹🌹🌷🌷🌺🌺🌸🌸

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Parami

Sorry to hear that, Blearyeyed, and sending wishes for a speedy recovery x

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Bridge31

I had no idea either. Lots of love surrounding you. 🦋 You are an inspiration to the rest of us. 🦉

XXX

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katiemills

You poor girl , Bee. My nephew has Ehlers Danlos too - it’s so painful . I hope things simmer down and that you feel more comfortable very soon .

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Spittal9

I hope things start to improve for you very soon.

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Rugger

Hoping you will soon feel much better when the virus has gone. xx

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Orpheus82

Life can be so cruel. You are right to take one day at a time, small steps up that steep road and hold on tightly to ‘hope’. Hopefully all the love and good wishes here can help to buoy you up in these difficult times. A good cry and a rant can also help so don’t be afraid to let it all out when it all gets to much! Thinking of you 💐

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Evercurious

Take care, dear heart.❤️🌼🌈💙

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Cyclegirl54

Take care 🌸🌸

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Whitner

So sorry you are going through such a rough patch. You will be in my prayers.

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Lonsdalelass

Wishing you all the best. Hope you start to feel better soon. X

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Oumaof2

So sorry to hear this Bee...

Wishing you better very soon...

Sending 🤗🤗🤗 and all good wishes to a lovely lady 💐💐💐 🐝🐝🐝. Lena 🌻

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Pixix

Oh no! I didn’t realise. Out here on my selfish holiday in the sun I haven’t been reading the forum as often a S usual Really sorry to read this, sending you gentle healing hugs, and hope you improve very soon. S xxx

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bunnymom

Wishing you well today ☀️

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Blackcat1M

So sorry to hear your are so unwell, my best wishes for you to have good health in 2020,, sending hugs🙏💕

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Blearyeyed

Thank you so much for your kind get well wishes .

I really am overwhelmed by all the replies , private messages , and emails I have received in the last day in response to my post . I can't believe how lucky I am to be in contact with such a lovely caring bunch of people , especially as many of you are suffering your own illnesses and setbacks at the moment and have even taken time out of your holidays just to send me your support.

I even got a wonderful get well eCard from Jinasc which cheered me and the Family up no end , I just wish I was tech savvy enough to share it with you.

Let's just say , she doesn't just dance up a storm in a Sombrero but is a Funky Lady too, I'm glad I had my support on when it arrived in my Inbox.

You have really helped me gain a bit of my old self back again in the last 24 hours and boosted my Spiritual strength , even if I have a way to go physically I have found my smile.

Thank you all so very much , hugs and kisses , Bee xxx

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Dewdrop456

So sorry you are having to cope with sooo much.You are indeed “connected to the world “and to us here. Very best wishes for a speedy recovery dear Blearyeyed

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ncfaaeos

So much to deal with at once. You sound like a very strong lady - may you soon start to feel real improvement. My best wishes to you.

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MamaBeagle

Oh, Bee! You certainly seem to have been enduring more than your fair share of suffering. Hope there is some relief coming your way soon xx💐💐

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Jackoh

Was just about to pm you and saw this post - ❤️🙏🏻Xx

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Suet3942

So sorry you are feeling bad Bee. You are always on here with kind words and common sense . You always have time to answer questions in a very detailed way.

Hope you feel better soon. Xxxx

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Dontwannabesick

Hi BEE, just wanted to send you a hug. Thinking about you. (No need of reply) Feel better soon xxx

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