we found out three weeks ago.

[mikiejon]

hello every one, my name is mikie, and myself and my partner found out that she has breast cancer. she has just had her first treatment of chemo, but she is in bits and so am i, i dont want to let her see me cry for her as it would make things worse, we are together for ten years and both had bad previose relationships. she has three great kids and i have four. any help anyone can give us i would be greatfull. god bless all. michael & mary. i also found out my aunt was diagnosed with lung cancer, then a brain tumour as well. my partner and my aunt were in the same hospital, when she was getting her lynphnodes out. sorry about the spelling.

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Hello Michael,

I'm sorry to hear about your family troubles, but you're not really in the right place. You may find that searching for the Breast Cancer/Lung Cancer forums much more useful that Pancreatic Cancer.

All I can say is talk to Mary, don't hold your feelings in, she is probably feeling exactly the same as you; not wanting to upset you!

Good luck with treatment

Jayne

[Bradbury]

Hi Mikie,

Really sorry to hear about your partner and auny, please talk openly to each other, we , in our family find that helps.

I agree with Jayne, I think you should look for support in Breast/ Lung Cancer sights.

Good Luck and Best Wishes

Christine

[mikiejon in reply to Bradbury]

thank you christine, my fault i just didnt read the website too well, just seen cancer and help. best of luck to you and thank you were all in the same boat.

[trystan38]

chin up mikie be strong .my farther as the end stages of pancreatic + liver cancer its are not to CRY in front but around the conner is ok

im taking part in the london to cambridge cycle ride 22 july

it think of u then its for breast cancer .