hi guys, haven't posted here in awhile -
I was put on the nexplanon birth control implant on July 12th of this year as a safety measure since I have been with my boyfriend for almost 7 months. I have absolutely 0 interest in having a baby and am not ready for sex, but I am actually terrified of becoming pregnant. This BC measure like I said, is just in case. I'd rather be protected & safe, than sorry.
For those of you who don't know, nexplanon is a form of contraception that is inserted into your upper arm as a tiny little rod, releases hormones into your body & is over 99% effective at preventing pregnancy. There's also the perk of not having to deal with taking a pill everyday! Nexplanon sounded like a great choice and I can't say it's been terrible. Personally, it's been pretty unfavorable. I've heard from multiple friends & threads online many positive things about the implant & really thought the only side effect would be irregular periods or even losing my period all together which sounded like a dream to me, honestly. Even though it hasn't even been 2 months on this BC, I've been very scared. I started spotting a very brown color a few days before my first period after the insertion in July & the first few days of my period, the cramps were EXCRUCIATING. I felt like I was going to pass out, the pain was so awful. Other than the cramps being more severe, my first period was pretty normal, just a few days longer as to be expected. Normally my periods last 5 days & my first one on the BC lasted 7. I don't really like the fact that I have to wear pantiliners all of the time because of the gross brown discharge & spotting, my discharge has been really thick & brown, I feel crampy all of the time, my stomach aches & feels weird, I've been getting more acne, my mood swings have been bad, along with other side effects. I honestly feel like I'm on my period all of the time and it's starting to scare me. I feel like it's not normal to feel like this on the implant as many women don't have any of these side effects & extreme cramping, which I get more than any of the other side effects, isn't deemed normal on the BC. I actually feel like I'm pregnant.. which scares me so much. I'm still a virgin & my boyfriend and I have not gone past only some foreplay, but even just the possibility of becoming pregnant is enough to convince my anxiety.
I would just like to get some help & advice from any other ladies on birth control? Is this just my body getting use to the hormones? Should I just give it more time? Could I be pregnant somehow? Should I get it removed?
Thank you guys so much for the help x