Feel down

[Leanneweir]

I want to be die for good and I hate myself

[Madlegs1]

Hi Leanne- sounds like things aren't going too well for you at the moment.

Would you like to unload a bit here?

[Leanneweir in reply to Madlegs1]

I feel life upside down

[Madlegs1 in reply to Leanneweir]

What way?

What's the scariest thing for you right now?

[Leanneweir in reply to Madlegs1]

My really mum want nothing to do with me at all

[Madlegs1]

That's a tough feeling to deal with!

Are you on your own or do you have someone to share things with?

Have you taken your meds today?😣

[Leanneweir in reply to Madlegs1]

No one to share this with and yes taken meds today

[Madlegs1 in reply to Leanneweir]

Sunday nights are always hard when you're alone and feeling a bit low.

I see from the other post that you have a sore ankle. I'm glad you're minding it well and will get it checked out.

If you can make yourself a mug of warm milk with a teaspoon of honey (or sugar) and a sprinkle of cinnamon ( don't worry if you don't have any- the milk and honey is grand)- drink that and try to get some sleep.

Things will look a lot better in the morning.

I have to sign off now ( past my bed time and my meds are kicking in 😴)

Loads of people are here to listen to you and support you.

Mums are important but you are a very special person in your own right.

Please mind yourself and have a good night.

Night night!

[chazwitch in reply to Leanneweir]

hey learned all my kids have stopped talking to me and they have stopped me seeing my grand children and it sucks. it's so painfully. say hi sometime.x

[grace111 in reply to chazwitch]

sorry to hear this chazwitch i do hope things get resoloved. it must be lovely to have grand children. my friend has two and i wont ever have any. i feel i'v missed out on so much. xoxo

[grace111]

hi leann. are you feeling a little better since speaking to someone. why does your mum want nothing to do with you? can you talk about it. iv got a daughter and we fall out too but i still love my girl. sometimes when people get upset and fall out they say things they dont really mean. im not going to bed so if you want to talk just post and i will talk with you if that will help. i should be around for another hour. if your asleep now thats even better. come back again tomorrow and have a chat. love grace xoxox🤗

[Bananas5]

Hello Leanne

Things always feel worse at night. Other people are in bed and you feel alone.

Not on here - always someone around to chat with if you want

Made myself a large cup of tea! Ready to listen if you want a nater.

Hugs and remember you are with people who care

x

[Ropes1967tanzania]

Good morning Leanne, pain is so hard to manage sometimes and it makes you feel so isolated. Please know that as others have said, we do understand a bit how you feel, you are not alone.

[Hidden]

Hi leanneweir i feel like all the time but I went one better I did tried killing my self it was my son who found me and I'm still here my son did live with me but now he lives with my expartner family, I suffer with crps I had my left arm and my right foot amputated now I'm in a wheelchair I have a carer that come in three days a week then I'm on my own the rest off the time so I come on this site and the people on here are better

[Bananas5 in reply to Hidden]

Morning Yogibe good to hear you!

x

[Toplady]

LeanneWeir,

Hope you are feeling a little better this morning, I just wanted to say, whatever happened, you are not alone, this forum is a brilliant place to unload and just share your feelings, I don't post often but I read it everyday. Really is a good place to get some wise words or help or just a chance to moan and whinge when everyone else is fed up of hearing you.

Look after yourself 💝

[LESLIE66]

Hang in there...

[johnsmith]

This sounds like you need to be walking up and down the hallway time while thinking about useful things you could be telling people. When you have had enough of this go to sleep for an hour. This should change your mood.

Sometimes talking does not cut it. You need to be doing something. Emotions are in the body. Moving the body changes the emotion.

All emotions come and go. This sounds crass when you experiencing very uncomfortable emotion. The skill is not to add more uncomfortable emotion on top of uncomfortable emotion you already have.

If you must break a few plates make sure they are the cheap ones from the charity shop which you won't miss.

I play freecell on my computer as a way of changing the wrong type of emotion. My grandmother used to play solitaire.

Hope this helps.

[chazwitch]

hey hunni I know how that feels I've been in your shoes. I'm here if you want to talk. I've been so close to this but I'm here now and there is a light at the end of the tunnel. it may not feel like it at the moment. I know own there is nothing I can say to make you feel better I'm just talking in the hope your listening. ps say hello.x

[Leanneweir]

Thank you