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You may recall, Angie had been scheduled for surgery on 9 April. Having spoken with the surgeon it was decided to bring the op forward a week so she would not be off chemo as long. Just as well really, since Angie hasn't had any chemo for a couple of weeks now, her symptoms have come back with a bang. She has swollen up hugely and is feeling tired, sick and very uncomfortable. God I hate this bloody disease!

We have to be at the hospital at 7am and surgery is scheduled for 8:30am. I hope and pray that the surgery goes well and they get her lodger out successfully. It is scary being helpless when your partner is so ill. Please keep your fingers and toes crossed for her!

Andy x

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Hi Andy,

Yes we all hate this horrible disease... sorry that you are having such a tough time....sending you both my best wishes and praying for you both love x G x

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HerThing

Thank you, Gwyn. Your kindness is appreciated x

All my best wishes are being sent for Angie's speedy recovery...good luck, my thoughts are with you both.

Luanna xx

Hi Andy

Glad they're bringing the op forward. I'm sure when it is over and done with it will all seem much better. Hope it all goes well.

Monique x

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Hi Monique, Thanks for your supportive words. x

Hi Andy, hope all goes well and Roger becomes homeless. Rgds Paul

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francescahannah

I am sorry you're having such a horrible time and I am sure she will feel much better after the op. I will be thinking of you both today

Love Francesca x

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lucy1dog

Hi Andy all we can do is send you our best wishes and prayers, anything that works really.

Lucy x

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harley

Hi Andy,

We all hate this bloody disease which none of us invited into our lives, stay strong, my fingers and toes are crossed for you.

Joanna

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I really feel for you both, Andy. It's good they've brought forward the op. It's a small thing but I also think it's good to get the op over early in the day rather than having to hang around.

We are all rooting for you. Keep us posted.

Love to you both

Linda xx

Hi Andy

Everything crossed for Angie. Hope the op goes well.

Love Chris x x

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charlie12

Hi Andy

I am so terribly sorry that you are going through this terrible time. I read your first posting( which I hope is OK) and you said that your wife is tiny and had a huge mass. From personal experience having had a mass of similar size removed , she will hopefully feel much much better once this thing is out.

She is fortunate to have such a loving hubby. Mine, who is also brilliant, wrapped me up in love and affection and believe me this makes a huge huge difference. But you do need to make sure that your own health does not deteriorate, so if things are getting on top of you speak to your GP.

I do hope that the surgery goes well, as this is so crucial.

Sending you lots of cyberhugs and do let us know how it goes.

Charlie xxx

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sammyshenton

Sending all my love and best wishes for a successful operation and speedy recovery x x You WILL beat this.

Sammy xxx

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hil65wil

Thinking of you both today and praying all goes well.

Keep strong.

Love and best wishes

Hilary xx

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jan50

sending my love and best wishes, hope all goes well,

love

Jan x

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AnnieMae

Best wishes for today and hope all goes well with the op.

Annette xxx

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Whippit

Wishing that everything goes well for you. It's a horrible time. I hope that Angie feels more comfortable and you can look forward to better times. Best wishes. Annie

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citrine

Thinking of you both today Andy. Hope all goes well and that Angie will feel better from now on.

Love Mary xx

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Anne-2

Hi Andy

Just read your message- I do hope everything went well.

Love and prayers

Anne

Hi both, hope all went well and the recovery is starting. I was amazed at how quickly I recovered with little or no pain and hope Angie will be the same

Best wishes,

Chris x

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Hi Andy

Hope everything goes well for Angie today, and she feel a lot better afterwards.

Take care of yourself.

Love Linda xx

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angelina

Thinking of you both today. Im sure Angie will be feeling much

better tomorrow. It's amazing how much better you feel after

having the 'Alien' removed ( as mine was called ).

Best Wishes

Angie x

Hope all is well. Cx

Really hoping that it all went swimmingly for you both. She will be so much more comfortable afterwards Andy, just stay strong for her - we can tell you will.

Love

Sue xxx

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Zannah

Hi Andy

I hope that the surgery has gone well.

Thinking of you both.

Big hug

Zannah

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