Devastated πŸ’”: I put a post on the other day... - My Ovacome

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Devastated πŸ’”

sjg81
sjg81

I put a post on the other day about my mum being poorly in hospital and you were all so helpful and supportive and I'm so sorry for any one i haven't replied to personally but I'm absolutely devasted.

My mum passed away last night. We were allowed in with her to spend her last few hours.

Devasted is an understatement but she fought to the end. She was only 59.

Just feel so numb.

Thank you to everyone over the last two years that has given me advice and support.

With love

Sarah xx

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I am so desperately sorry to hear about your mum's. May she rest in peace and my thoughts and prayers are with you xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Newbie_2020

Thank you xx

So very very sorry to hear about your mum , my thoughts are with you and your family at this terribly sad time ❀️xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Spirit22

Thank you xx

Love to you and all your family at this difficult time. Your mum is now free from her suffering and I hope you can take some comfort from this. Thank you for letting us know and you still have our support going forwards. Love and hugs πŸ’™β€οΈXx Jane

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Cropcrop

Thank you xx

My deepest condolences to you and your family. We are all here for you if you need to talk. Take care Lyn xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to lyn1987

Thank you xx

Thanks Jane xx

So very sorry to hear about your mum . My thoughts and prayers are with you.

May she rest in peace 🌹

I am so sorry to read this Sarah... at least her suffering is over but I am not surprised that you are feeling numb and just bewildered by what’s happened. Take good care of yourself as you begin to come to terms with this won’t you xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Lyndy

I will do thank you xx

So terribly sorry to hear about your mum. May she rest in peace away from the pain. Sending love and condolences,to you & your family. xx

Hi Sarah, Im so terribly sorry for your loss but grateful you were able to be there with her. Take time now to remember the good times you had. Allow the tears to fall, to grieve. Your mum will always be with you in your heart and although the pain will ease with time your memories will remain. xx Big hug. Kathy xx

p.s. thank you for taking the time to let us know. Heaven has gained another Teal Angel x

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Katmal-UK

Thanks Kathy that's means a lot xx

So sorry to read this my lovely, condolences to you and your family ❀️❀️ xxx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to CallmeMum

Thank you xx

So terribly sorry to hear your devastating news Sarah. I hope in the months ahead you find some peace and take comfort that you were there with your mom at her passing. πŸ™

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to win_56

Thank you xx

Dear Sarah, I am so very sorry you have lost your mum. She was way too young. I’m sure she was comforted by your love and support. Thank God you were able to be there at the end. ❀️

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to delia2

Thank you xx

Sarah, my heart breaks for you I'm so sorry to hear about your precious mum.. another teal angel gone too soon x I'm glad you could be with her, when my mum passed in April that is one of the things that gave me so much comfort in this covid world right now, that we were with her. Take each day lovely, cry when you need to, talk to your family, your mum will always live on in you x lots of love, vickie xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Vicx1977

Thank you Vickie, it means a lot xx

I’m so sorry, May God give you strength to go through this terrible time, my sincere condolences to you and your family

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Vanessa1993

Thank you xx

Oh Sara, sincerest sympathies to you and your family. Thankful you were able to be with her. No doubt in my mind she knew you’ve been an angel for her on this journey. May her memory soon bring you smiles! Blessings! Elayne

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to ElayneZ

Thank you xx

So sorry to read this, at least you were finally allowed to see her. It’s no wonder you feel numb. Take things easy for a while and remember the good times.

Yeh we finally got in yesterday. Thank you for your kind words xx

Hello Sarah, I am so very sorry for your sad loss & hope that in time your happy memories will give you comfort.

You have been through so much with your mum and thank goodness you could be with her at the end. Of course you are heartbroken so be kind to yourself.

Sending love and prayers for you all.

Jan. xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Litchick

Thank you Jan it means a lot xx

Hi Sarah I am so terribly sorry for your loss. I send you and your family the most sincere of condolences. I am the same age as your Mum and I dread my daughters having to go through what you are going through now. I am pleased that you were able to be with your Mum at the end. That will have meant a lot to both of you.

Sending you lots of love and a big virtual hug xxxxx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Welshandproud

Thank you for your kind words. Theres nowhere I would have been. Take care of yourself xx

Welshandproud
Welshandproud in reply to sjg81

I know that it made a huge difference that I was able to be with my Mum when she passed. Sending you strength and love 😘😘😘

Hi Sarah, I am so very sorry to hear about your loss - such a horrible time for you all, and you are in my thoughts. It may not seem it now, but it will get easier and you need to grieve in a way that is right for you - our parents are the people who have been with us for all of our lives: it's not surprising it hits us so hard, whatever age we are.

Please take good care of yourself, and condolences to you and the rest of your family.

x

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to LesleyGB

Thank you for your kind words xx

So sorry to hear about your mum Sarah. My condolences to you and your family. May she rest in peace.

β€˜Loves last gift Is remembrance’. πŸ¦‹

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Puddle

Your so right. Loves last gift is remembrance. Thank you for your kind words xx

Dear Sarah

I’m so sorry for your loss, it sounds like you are a wonderful loving daughter and I’m glad you were able to spend time with your mum at the end. Sending you love and thinking of you πŸ’•

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Lizz49

Thank you for your message. The hospital finally let us in yesterday, which I will always be grateful for. Take care Sarah xx

So sorry to read that Sarah. There are a few daughters on here and I am one of them. 59 is no age at all. I hope your mum was comfortable and I’m glad you got to see and be with her at the end. I’m so sorry again Sarah. Xxx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to N-A-58

Thank you for your lovely message. I just wish there was accurate testing and a cure for everyone. I hope your mum is doing ok, both of you take care xx

N-A-58
N-A-58 in reply to sjg81

Me too, me too. We are doing ok for now but it’s a constant worry. We are all here to support you through this xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to N-A-58

Sending all my love to you xx

So very to see you have lost your very young mum. All sympathy’s with you

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Katiebairdie

Thank you xx

Sarah, I am so dreadfully sorry to hear the news of your mum. My thoughts and prayers are with you, your mum and family. May your beautiful mum rest in peace. Take care of yourself xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to CharlotteSo_UK

Thank you Charlotte xx

Sending you love, light and strength from Seattle. You now have a very special angel on your shoulder. Take care of yourself as grief can take its toll. XO

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Seadream

Thank you so much xx

Oh, Sarah. I am so sorry hearing of the passing of your Mom. I know it was a huge comfort to you and also to her that you were there. She is at peace. Hugs, Jill

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Mommoo65

Thank you Jill xx

Dear Sarah

Sending lots of love to you and your family at this terrible time, it sounds like she was surrounded in love at the end and that is all we can ask for xxx Look after each other

Live Diane xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Bettyxxx

Thank you Diane xx

I’m so sorry for your loss. To lose your mum is terrible, an unimaginable situation for all of us. It sounds though that she was surrounded by love and this would have been a great comfort to her I’m sure. Xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to sticky3006

Thank you so much xx

Condolences and sympathy on your sad loss. You can be proud of the fight your mum put up against this awful disease. Well done on being with her in those last few hours. You may never know just what a comfort you were. Family can make the going easier. It may help to seek some counselling to deal with her passing.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to AlaNtO

Thank you for your kind words. I may look into counselling xx

I’m so sorry Sarah. Condolences to you and your family. Therese πŸ’”

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to TarbonNZ

Thank you xx

You have been an amazing support to your mum too. You must have made her feel so loved and treasured. Stay strong. Your live for each other will never diminish. X

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to JustKBO

Thank you so much for your kind words xx

So sad to hear your news. I’m glad you were able to be with your mum and that she is at peace after such a difficult time. She was very lucky to have a caring daughter like you and am sure she’d want you now to take good care of yourself over the next days and months.

With love Jo 🌹🌼🌸🌻🌺

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to ShropshireJo

Thank you Jo xx

So sorry to hear your sad news Sarah. Thinking and praying for you and your family.

Gentle hugs Nicola x

Thank you Nicola xx

Hi Sarah. I'm so sorry to hear your sad news. I was really praying your mum would pull through. I am also daughter on here. My mum has had three lots of chemo and is stable at the moment. She's 84 in October! Your mum was so young. Sending huge virtual hugs. XX ❀️

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to JanePW1965

I often think of you and your mum. I think the last time we spoke you had been to Blackpool. I'm so pleased to hear she's doing well xx

JanePW1965
JanePW1965 in reply to sjg81

Aaaah you have a good memory Sarah! Thanks for thinking about my mum. Yes we went to Blackpool at the end of July last year. We were due to go again in May but it was cancelled due to the virus. Then we were due to go on 24 August but again, cancelled. So we're scheduled to go to Llandudno on 18 September. Fingers crossed! Mum was disappointed as she loves Blackpool. Will have to try and find a day trip! Anyway, sending hugs your way. I can imagine how upset you will be right now. This dreaded virus is making everything more difficult. Jane xxx ❀️

Oh Sarah I’m so sorry ❀️

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Yorkiepudd

Thank you xx

Hi Sarah I am so sorry you have lost your Mum. I'm sure she's at peace now, she tried her very best to stay with you. God bless. Take care Sue xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to SUE7777

Thank you sue xx

So so sorry. No need to reply we all understand how you and your family must be feeling. My thoughts are with you.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Lizzieanne

Thank you xx

Oh I’m so sorry to hear this. I know how you must be feeling and appreciate that you have taken time to let us know. My heart goes out to you & your family during this sad time. Xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to ruthg55

Thank you so much xx

So sorry to hear this news Sarah. We can never really make sense of this dreadful disease. Why and how we got it. It’s like it has a mind of its own. Your lovely Mum gave it her best fight. May she rest in peace. So pleased to hear you got to be there with her. She had your comfort and support throughout. Bless you. πŸ¦‹

Cheryl x

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Cheryl4677

She really did Cheryl. Thank you for your kind words xx

I read your recent post and I'm so sad to hear your devastating news. Another taken far too young. My sincerest condolences to you and your family. May time help to ease the pain and bring strength and comfort with each new day. May memories help to bring peace of mind as they keep alive the moments from times gone by. My prayers are with you.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Mumsie13

Thank you for you kind words xx

So sorry to hear this Sarah.

My heart is with you & all those close to your mum.

Big virtual hugs xxx

Thank you so much xx

So sorry to hear that your mum has passed Sarah , sending you strength and love ,difficult times ahead ,but your mums spirit is free now. Xx

Cheryl.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to fendweller

Thank you Cheryl xx

so sad .... xxxxxxxx πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—πŸ’—

Thank you xx

So very sorry to hear this, Sarah. Deepest condolences to you and your family. I can only imagine the pain of losing your mum like this, and so young.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Miiko

Thank you for your kind words xx

So so sorry to hear your sad news Sarah. Our thoughts are with you and your family at this sad time. Gwen x

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to thomas62

Thank you Gwen xx

I am so very sorry. She was very young. Xxx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to SASSY196

Thank you xx

So sorry Sarah, if only we could something to help you now. You must be out of your mind with grief.

You tried so hard for your mum.

Lots of love

Angela xxx

Thank you Angela xx

I’m so very sorry to read this. Another lovely lady gone too soon. Sending a huge hug.

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Neona

Thank you xx

So sorry about your mum thinking of you and your family

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Stanmore

Thank you xx

Only 59! That’s so young.

I am so sorry for your loss, Sarah. That is heartbreaking for all of you. πŸ’” πŸ€—

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to WoolyHat

Thank you xx

Hi Sarah, I am so sorry to hear about your mom . I read your post the other day where you were desperately hoping she would pull through so my heart goes out to you. I understand what your going through I lost my mom 24yrs ago at 58 and I am still heartbroken. Like you I was really close to her and adored her. I now worry but hope everyday that my daughters will not have to face the same heartbreak after my cancer diagnosis last year at 52. Sarah thinking of you as you face some hard days ahead but hopefully the lovely memories you have of your mom will help you get through them. Take care Xx πŸ’•

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Tulips66

Thank you so much for your kind words xx

I'm so sorry for your loss. Sending lots of love and hugs xxxxxx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Cazbird

Thank you xx

Sending love and strength to get you through these hard times. Xxoo

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to caf132

Thank you xx

I'm so sorry to hear the sad news about your mum. You have been her champion from the beginning. I remember that she had the PPC like me . In time you will be comforted by the fact that you did everything you could to help her to cope and deal with this illness . May she rest in peace.

πŸ’šπŸ’•

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to IrishMollyO

I remember you were one of the first people that helped me when my mum was diagnosed and thats right they thought her primary was PPC rather than Ovarian. Thank you again for support and your kind words xx

You are so welcome Sarah. We are all here for each other and I was happy to help when I could . Meanwhile I will pray that you get the strength to cope with your grief in the days ahead. Take care

XXX

πŸ’šπŸ’•

Thank you xx

I’m so very sorry So young

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sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Jcspirit54

Thank you xx

So sorry to hear your news.I lost my wife 8 weeks ago to this dreadful disease after being together for 55 years.My heart goes out to you and my tears.My love to anyone in this position and particularly yourself Martyn xx

sjg81
sjg81 in reply to Friedlander

Thank you Martyn. My thoughts and love are with you too xx

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