Feeling ever so slightly low..

[Jonich]

Hi

I am not sure why but today I feel just a tad low.. I’m not a balling wreck and throughout most of my journey so far I’ve been pretty ok and positive. But just sometimes when least expected it all gets to me! I just know so many of you will know what I mean. 😊

[Kryssy]

Absodoodle. Out of the blue will come floods of tears and "why me" and "it's not fair" days. It's good to get the emotion out so don't bottle it up, have a cuddle with someone you love and just let the tears flow. Then, have a little treat - hubby pops out and gets me a big bag of chicken flavour crisps - and you'll feel a whole lot better. Works for me every time. Love and hugs xxxx

[Jonich]

Thanks Kryssy 😊x

[doodoolatrice]

Completely understand, I have those moments as well. The majority of the time I'm fine and manage to stay positive, but then out of nowhere, my mood dips and I just want to curl up under the duvet. I hope you're feeling more positive tomorrow, hugs xx

[Jonich in reply to doodoolatrice]

Thank you! 😊

[Yoshbosh]

I have had one of those days today as well! It comes out of nowhere. Wallow in it today, and know that tomorrow, or very soon, you’ll dust yourself off and get back to being you.

Lots of love,

Vicki x

[Jonich in reply to Yoshbosh]

Very true! Hope you are feeling better soon too! X x

[lesleysage]

Yes, Jonich, your post showed you know we've all 'got the t-shirt' for these unexpected crumbling/meltdown feelings..... I began to realise they were much the same as when my Dad died (which was 35 years earlier than my OC diagnosis) and I decided I was grieving for how I hoped my life was going to be and what I now realised it was going to 'contain'. Once I saw it through that perspective, I accepted them, watched them come and go and this, somehow, helped me go back to ways that had helped me all those years ago...whether these are hugs with people you love and who love you, snuggling under the duvet, crisps,... just whatever else you fancy which helps re-establish the 'normality' you're choosing to keep nourished in your life.

Warm wishes for many more good days. L

[Jonich in reply to lesleysage]

Thank you very much great advice x x

[Lily-Anne]

Sending you a big hug it does get you like this. I sometimes fall into a void without realising it.

We’re all here for you the more you share the easier it is

LA xx

[Jonich in reply to Lily-Anne]

Thanks Lily -Anne x x

[Mlowery]

Morning

It’s part of the journey I’m afraid. Look what you have been through. Go with the flow tomorrow is another day. We are all amazing women. Best wishes Maureen

[Jonich in reply to Mlowery]

Thank you Maureen x

[Jonich]

Thanks everyone I am indeed feeling better this morning- off for blood tests before Avastin treatment tomorrow usual drill that we all know so well! It really helps to know you are all out there 😊👍😘

[Clearcell-lady]

It's normal to feel sad and upset Jonich at times...we all do. But remember how far you've come and with that renewed inner strength embrace each day as a challenge you know you can handle and you will overcome it!

Maryanne