Learning to cope : A few days ago, my intrusive... - OCD Support

OCD Support

1,363 posts

Learning to cope

Shutterislandnel profile image
6 Replies

A few days ago, my intrusive thoughts were triggered and I found it completely impossible to stop myself from asking reassurance questions. In fact none of the tips I've read about entered my mind, the intrusive thoughts felt completely real and I became a crying shaking mess for the whole day. I was totally exhausted and had the best sleep in ages. I felt calmer the next day which was yesterday and thought a lot about how you can ever mange to acknowledge its your ocd whilst in the midst of the horror.

This morning a similar trigger and intrusive thought entered my mind and the same anxiety started to build, I managed to tell myself that it wasnt real, it was just a thought and it will pass and right now as im typing, my anxiety has lifted. Im so proud of myself for being able to recognize what was happening to me.

Written by
Shutterislandnel profile image
Shutterislandnel
To view profiles and participate in discussions please or .

The ability to reply to this post has been turned off.

6 Replies
Sallyskins profile image
Sallyskins

That's brilliant and a tip I shall try to use myself!

Shutterislandnel profile image
Shutterislandnel in reply to Sallyskins

I hope it helps you x

That is a huge breakthrough!

anon1204 profile image
anon1204

Thanks I suffer through similar scenarios. Thanks for a good tip!

Noodles17 profile image
Noodles17

Can I ask what the trigger was?

Shutterislandnel profile image
Shutterislandnel

Hi noodles17 one of my ocd themes is that at some point my children have been sexually abused and haven't told me, when for instance, they've had tea in a friends house.

Last week I was triggered by one of my daughters crying, she was upset because she didn't want to wear a pair of shoes I bought her. To my ocd mind, it didn't seem reasonable to be crying for something so trivial and I thought she must be crying about something else and this was the trigger. I started questioning her, asking has something happened to her has someone hurt her and my mind totally ran away with this and I was totally consumed with horror and guilt and had one of the worst anxiety attacks of my life. The next day when I was more rational, it occurred to me that my daughter is at an age when fashion and keeping up with what everyone else is wearing is important. X

The ability to reply to this post has been turned off.

You may also like...

I can’t cope with this!!

Anxiety is really bad today and targeting my marriage!! I’m absolutely terrified! I really don’t...

Help OCD is taking over my life

year at uni and I hav started with intrusive thoughts. The thoughts are about children. I have now...

Intrusive thoughts getting worse

wish the thoughts would stop. I try to avoid situations which I know will trigger the thoughts. I...

Please share a thought x

anybody mind sharing one of their intrusive thoughts please. I've just been advised today that OCD...

Intrusive thoughts, anxiety

this today, I keep getting bad frightening intrusive thoughts, mainly a repeated word or phrase...