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I woke up depressed

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Took me an age to get going. Felt too grim to go to church this morning. Didn't want to inflict myself on other folks.

Fed up with myself, I got dressed, put lead on the dog, and stuck some head phones on. I was listening to radio 2. I slouched miserably up the lane until I came to some fields.

I let the dog off ( he was like a champagne cork flying out the bottle!!). I watched as he had a mad moment racing through the vegetation. Oh, I cannot begin to tell you how deliriously happy he was! It wasn't for the first time that I thought 'we should all be like dogs.'

As I stood there watching the infectious fur ball, a bouncy piece of music came on the radio. I thought sod it, and started to dance, and sing at the top of my voice. Well I say dance, but it was more a stiff limbed limp, with lots of flaying of arms (not unlike a drowning person).

I limped, flayed, and sang all the way home; much to the delight of my dog, and the consternation of passers by. However, one of the few bonuses of getting older, is the not giving a flying ferret!

I feel much better now😳😄

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allanah

Aw thank goodness . You dealt with that very well , I would probably had a quivering wreck day lol!

in reply to allanah

Well, I still feel like Victor Meldrew, but I'm OK. The mornings are always hellish. It's like rebooting my brain!

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allanah in reply to

Quite a few of us know THAT feeeling!

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sylvi

Glad to hear it darling.xxxx

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Jacki08

Love it😊

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ruth_p

Gorgeous dog!

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JEM95

My dog is the best medicine I could possibly have. When I'm struggling a waggy tail, cuddle and a bit of fuss helps me re-focus.

Walking her every day helps my mobility - it's easy not to do things when you ache, but she makes me push myself which helps. I am so much fitter because if her.

I'm sure she knows when I'm struggling and I feel I'm never alone in my struggles.

Apart from that - getting out, lots of fresh air and chatting with other dog owners raises the spirits.

in reply to JEM95

Dogs are great. Though to be fair I didn't think that last night when mine roared through a bramble bush...with me on the other end of lead! Gunshot!! It's pheasant time and Elmer Fudd is out a shooting more than wabbits!

Collies are noise sensitive (mine has marbles on his head!). Other than that, he's fab.

Oh wow!!! What a positive post :) Thank you for sharing

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Leonwp

I sooooo love your reply and i suspect we would all have loved the wild unbridled performance.....and i expect the dog was quite impressive too!

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Daviator

Well done

Laughter is the best medicine I have found. The trick is to remember, while in the darkness. We are made of light.

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Lulumae

You have put a smile on my face, i had to stiffle a giggle, I'm reading your post while sitting on a hospital bed waiting for my first rituximab infusion. Thank you for that.

in reply to Lulumae

Aw, glad I made you giggle. Hope the infusion wasn't too hellish? Imagine it's gin, cider, Harvey wall banger....

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stbernhard

WELL DONE on all fronts! Getting up, going out, making yourself feel better and above all not giving a flying ferret. How positive is that! I stick the finger up to RA and the people who really matter to me all understand that we only have a certain amount of energy in our tank. Keep it up!

I love "I limped, flayed, and sang all the way home" - Awesome visual!

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