I was diagnosed with RA about a year ago and am currently on sulfasalazine and hydroxy but still feel in pain so am going to start on a low dose of methotrexate which I hope will help.
My natural reaction to this type of thing is to put on a brave face and get on with it, I was diagnosed with MS a few years ago and now I don't know which of these diseases is causing my current issues and I don't know how to explain to people that I spend most days telling them everything is ok but actually things are quite tough.
I don't specifically know what I want or need people to do so I don't mention it. I live alone, with family close at hand, but when I see friends I tend to pretend there is nothing different and I'm the same as I've always been. I feel that I'm missing out as I can't do what my friends do, just getting through a week is a triumph for me. How can I make others appreciate that as much as I want to do the things they do, I just can't, but I am still the same me??
Sorry to moan and whinge but this place has helped me in the past so thought this might be the best place to start.
Thank you
Phil xx