My ex popped round today with my eldest daughter and grandson. I was attempting to mow the grass and he took over and even did me a couple of DIY jobs. We ended up laughing cause I said can you leave the grass and do the other jobs that I cant do. He said "god its like we are still married". I nearly said "no its not, cause you do what I want now" lol, Anyway its good that after 8 years of divorce we can get on better than we did in 20 years of marriage. Must be a lesson in there somewhere.