I live about 250 miles from my transplant center. My appointment times started at 0730. The center works with a place called Restoring Hope Transplant House. For a small fee (probably 1/4 what you'd pay at a decent motel), they'll put us up for the night before my appointments. Essentially, it's Ronald McDonald House for transplant patients. They serve not only kidney patients, but cardiac/pulmonary, hepatic and other transplant patients.
We asked the transplant center for a referral and reserved one night, then drove in the day before. I'm a former long-haul truck driver, yet I was near wore out after the drive.
So, at 7 o'clock the next day, I started off in Radiology. A couple of chest x-rays later, and I'm off to see a progression of RN/BSN/PA and lots of other initials, including MD. There was the initial visit with the transplant nephrologist. A couple pokes and prods, as well as reminders that pot smoking isn't a good idea after transplant due to mold issues (I have never considered that.) Then, the doc was replaced by my pre-transplant coordinator. She explained all of the ins and outs of transplant planning, including looking for a live donor and how to navigate my insurance company to get what I'll need in meds and etc...
It was at this point that my wife and I were told about a policy which states that I need to remain within 30 minutes of the hospital for 30 days!!! I had NO idea how we were going to afford the Transplant House, even at their low rate. It turns out that the transplant center rents out a block of hotel rooms downtown, and they have a free shuttle that runs from the hotel every hour. WOW! Bonus!! And, it doesn't cost me anything out-of-pocket. The hospital sends a bill to my insurance and they pay for it as part of the transplant process.
And now, it's time for the Nutritionist, who tells me about the various types of diets I may be required be on. I have no real requirements right now, but I have an idea of what to do once dialysis starts.
Finally, there is time for the social worker. She has info on community aid agencies, pharmacy discounts, support persons, and NKF (National Kidney Foundation, for you out-of-towners).
Then, if was off to visit the vampires. They took 14(!!!) vials of blood!!
Then came time to drive home. 4 hours and deep conversations, and we arrived.
One of the things I take away from all of this is that I don't remember my mom doing a lot of the things that I just outlined. Of course, I was 11. What did I know? She got my little brother and I involved with her diet routines to let us feel responsible. I went along with her to dialysis during my summers for a couple years, then she received a transplant in my freshman year of high school. I don't recall any restrictions for distance. We lived 90 minutes from the transplant center; the same transplant center I just visited. We'll keep it in the family.
So, that was my adventure. I'm sure that most of you have gone through something similar. I have an entire list of things that I need before I'm entered into UNOS. 3 different kinds of CT scans, an MRI, an ECG, a stress test, and a visit to the dentist to sign a paper saying my mouth is infection free.
I learned more than I anticipated. I have about a million questions I'd love to ask my mom. She died within a year of her transplant. I'm just now getting a taste of what she went through.