Just back today from holiday. Learn't a great deal about myself. I hope I don't offend anyone, but in my opinion fat isn't attractive. Sorry but it isn't.......! Sometimes we can't help our weight but sometimes we can. Body image I guess is a very personal thing. For me I don't want to be that fat person on the beach...I have been....to be fair not huge, but certainly 'big'. We all people watch at sometime and when on holiday do it more. When I said previously I learn't something about myself....... it's that I don't want to be that fat person on the beach I want to be that healthy slim lady. Our hotel was all inclusive and this wasn't difficult really.....I looked at the cakes and deserts but didn't go there. I couldn't eat the sugary treats, the discipline of not doing so kicked in. The only person I would have let down was myself.